okay so im in love with this guy and i dont know how to get him. he is the janitor in my office [dont think that he is a loser he really isnt he is actually very charming and soo hot]
i cant seem to get his attention! i really need some good ideas everyone! i heard he likes "sexual" things and that those turn him on. would it be bad to do something like that to capture him? please help.
2007-09-20 19:35:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever heard the phrase... " by any means necessary"? I say if you think that if you have something in mind that would capture his attention go for it, just make sure he is interested in you before you make an as outta yourself, sorry hope this helps
2007-09-20 19:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ladybug355 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you are not in love with him. Charming and hot are not the basis for love. Love is mutual interests, beliefs and values.
But, if you want to get his attention, of course something sexual would do it. But I have to ask: How did you get the information that he is into "sexual" things? Was this from other girls in the office? If so, do you really want to be considered just another office conquest for him?
2007-09-21 02:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm....maybe you should just try getting to know him. You might have more things in common than you think. Taking the "sexual" approach might give him the wrong impression unless thats all you want. Be straight forward with him and let him know your interested in him. Ask him out for coffee the worst thing he can say is no. And if he does at least you know you gave it a shot.
2007-09-21 02:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by confuseddisneygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest doing "sexual" things to catch a guys attention is not a good idea. Then he is going to get the wrong impression of you. Unless that is all you want then I guess that is different. Good luck!
2007-09-21 02:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by bsdude2002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say 'hey there sexy boy" in a hot babyish voice. and walk slowly towands him. then drop a pen or something in front of him and bend down. he will be able to see down ur shirt. then spill some water on your shirt (if its white) and it will be see through and dont wear a bra that day. then wear a miniskirt and sit in a chair in front of him and do that thing form that movie or show where the girl wears no underwear and has her legs crossed, but then puts the otherleg of the one that was on top, and in the process, for like 2 seconds, ur legs are wide open and he can see your junk. finnaly put your hair down andshake it while you run over in "slow motion" and jump and put ur boons in his face then make out with him and have sex when your done. he will melt like butter
2007-09-21 02:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah don't do the "sexual" thing. You are relying on a "rumor" not a fact. I suggest you just go up to him and star a casual conversation. Ask him about work, etc. Then either he'll ask you out or just ask him if he want to grab a drink after work or something.
2007-09-21 02:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by silver_night_sky6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be bad to do something sexual just to get him. If you do that he'll only like you because of it, let me rephrase that, he will only use you for it. Just small talk with him and get to know him. In time, if he likes you he will ask you out if not then life goes on.
2007-09-21 02:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man likes ' sexual' things.
Just an idea: Wear a low cut blouse or a short skirt one of these days and 'flash' him. Do it so that he knows that u did it especially for him. That is bound to get his attention.
2007-09-21 02:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol the janitor likes sexual things lol thats classic
2007-09-21 02:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start off my saying hi and then starting a conversation with him. get to know him more. if you show him anything sexual too soon he may think of you in a bad way.
2007-09-21 02:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Miranda j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋