my clock is ticking, i need to get married and push out a kid within the next 3 years!!! where do i find the men who would want this too?
2007-09-20 19:19:54 · 13 answers · asked by trustTHYself 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Slow down dere....Life is more than about
Geting a good job, push out a kid, raise the kid, retire, and die!
2007-09-20 19:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your clock is ticking??? You can have children in your 40's...so I think you have some time there. You really do not want to pressure a guy to marry you...he will either marry you to shut you up and you will end up in a horrible marrage or he will run the other direction. Slow down! you have time. Marrage is not something you put a time limit on. Please just think before making life changing plans. You are in love with the idea of marrage and that will mess with your mind and blind you to a mans faults you would normally see if just dating
2007-09-20 19:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you started your search online so you're heading in the right direction, though maybe not at the right website. Try some online dating websites instead or just start going out and trying to meet people. BTW, 22 is not old and you are not running out of time, you have plenty! Your life will not be over if you're not married by 25.
2007-09-20 20:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you out of your mind? it does not work that way. You are supposed to take your time, fall in love , get married and then have children. you are talkinmg about a recipe for divorce. Have more respect for the children that you might bring into this world. Maybe, since you have not found anyone yet, you were not meant to have children. Beside, your clock has not even started ticking good. It is safe to have children even into your mid thirties.
Do yourself and your future children a favor, and take your time before you destroy people's lives.
2007-09-20 19:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is the big rush?
you are so not ready for marriage and children if this is your attitiude. Get out there and live a bit. Plenty of time for marriage and babies in your late 20's early 30's and the rest of your life. You will never find anyone while you are feeling this desperate.
2007-09-20 20:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooh, you're a classy lass aren't you? Just let all the boys know you are desperate to settle down, get married and knocked up asap, and they will be lining up at your door. The idea of an obsessed, shallow psycho won't freak them out at all!
2007-09-21 02:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by jess b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah. marriage is a big step that u should think bout... if it is sex that u are worried about then im sure that u are gong to be able to find a guy that can give it to u.. but if it is a long term commitment then its pretty rare.. however if u are studying then focus on ur studies and when the time is right which wont b long u can find someone! :P
2007-09-20 19:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chiv D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are human? You sound like a bunny just wanting to have kids. Everything comes at the right time so dont push.
2007-09-21 08:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Marquel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i didn't get married till i was 25. i waited three years to get pregnant and I am currently 28 and about to give birth to my first child.
at 22 you've barely begun to experience adult life. don't jump into it. embrace your freedom. you won't get it again once you're married and have kids.
it will happen when you least expect it, and you will be happier if you find something else to focus on.
2007-09-20 19:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your clock is not ticking! Why the rush? That is a surefire way to wind up in a bad marriage and in debt. -s
2007-09-20 19:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by Smarks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋