I feel like ever since I contracted the virus I will never be able to have sex again, or even meet anyone that would want to be with me, people just dont understand herpes and even though we can educate them, they would rather just move on to the next guy. Im a really good looking guy, educated, very intelligent with a lot of talents and goals but I doubt that any of this will help me. Before I got the virus, I already had trouble finding girls because I am extremely shy, now that I am dirty in the eyes of society I find it impossible. I would hate to pass on this virus to anybody else, because I know how much it sucks, so I would like to meet a girl with the virus. I know there are sites out there for this stuff, but they can be pretty expensive, are there any other ways, maybe a free site, anything will help.
2007-09-20 18:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Infectious Diseases
For those of you who are thinking "ewwwww", I hardly ever have symtoms, but that doesnt mean I cant pass it on, that is my main concern. Sure I can go spread the virus and not let anybody know I have it, but I would feel terrible for doing it.
2007-09-20 18:44:52 · update #1
Such ignorance! Those of you who get on a high horse and look down on people with herpes, guess what? Most people who have it don't even know they have it. So before you judge others, get yourself tested.
There are plenty of online dating sites for people with herpes. This one is probably the best:
www.MPwH.com
It even has a support chat room and placing an ad is free. Check it out. You are not alone.
2007-09-21 05:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Carline 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-02 15:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Chang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-13 10:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, those are pretty bad answers.
I have genital herpes hsv-1, I don't plan to limit myself to just men with herpes, I think I am worth a lot more than that. I know there are dating sites for people with herpes though.
If it helps, you actually find that if they like you, most people accept you with herpes. After all, it isn't a big deal really.
I have told three men, none were bothered, all were absolutely fine with it and all still wanted a relationship/sex with me. So it hasn't exactly impeded my dating life. Having said that, I still worry about being rejected in the future.
2007-09-21 00:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by mayflower25 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2015-07-09 02:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dan, it is a challenging problem, but you can still find a mate. Honesty is respected by most people on the planet, and this is no exception. Your shyness may actually be a greater challenge. Before starting with on line dating, I would recommend you work with a counselor for a while to help you get past your shyness, and to develop way of viewing your herpes so you can move forward with your life.
You know, men and women go to war and come back horribly wounded, missing arms and legs, and go on to carve out wonderful lives. You have that same possibility for your life.
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2014-08-26 20:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you want to meet another person with the virus because you think, "Well, she already has it, so it can't harm anyone if we did it, because we already have it!"
WRONG!
If you do have sex with a person with the STD, it's like you're giving yourself another DOSAGE of it.
It's very possible to find love in a person who doesn't have the virus either. It will be difficult, but the right person will accept you for who you are, and you guys'll find a way through it.
2007-09-20 18:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Milty 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Look for a nice gal with the same issue. She's probably looking for a guy like you.
2007-09-20 18:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
OK, so you meet a girl with the virus, get married, and have kids with the virus. Is that really a good plan either?
2007-09-20 18:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by smartsassysabrina 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋