friends I am confused. When people (all ages) looks at me. They do some specific actions. Like when women/girls/old ladies looks at me. they will cover their face and chests with their hands. Like I was going to eat them through the face or chest. This always happens even if I am not looking at them. They also tries to lower their skirt and fix their dress. It looks like my face tells them that I am a dangerous guy. And they should hide and cover them from me. All ethnic and all ages of women do this to me. I feel ashamed of me. I dont want to create trouble for anyone. But no one tells me what is wrong with my face. Maybe ladies have some idea of what could be wrong here. Can you hlep? thanks
2007-09-20 18:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
can we have a pic to see how u look like and maybe start from there?
i cover my breasts to some men who just shamelessly stared at the breasts or act funny. its really molesting in their sick mind when they "follow" your breasts.
if all those behavior of the women are bothering you, reflect. if one or two women did this to you it could be that they're sensitive. but not when most women does that.
2007-09-20 20:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by miss understand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.... -Sounds like you have a "piercing gaze" that makes people uncomfortable... Tell you what; buy a pair of lightly tinted sunglasses & see if THAT helps. Maybe you just need to tone that "look" down alittle... It ALSO might help if you wouldn't Stare at people so much! Besides being RUDE, it makes you look like someone most people would expect to find in a "Lineup"!
2007-09-21 01:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Low Jac. You need someone to tell you the truth about why women react to you this way. I notice you have no effect on men, which leads me to believe that it is the way you look at women which is distasteful to them. Find someone who will tell you the truth about this: a counselor, a stranger, even someone who you know doesn't like you, since you are more likely to get he truth from them.
2007-09-21 01:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my suggestion.
Go to a female hair stylist and ask her...First impression that you are giving off.
Ask her what can you do to change this, so people will see you in a better way.
It may be the expression on your face or it could be the hair style or eye brows need trimming.
Clothing style.
Teeth.
Smell.
Facial hair.
2007-09-21 01:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that the WAY you're looking at them makes them uncomfortable, not necessarily the way you look. I know lots of unattractive guys who draw women to them because of their personalities. Try smiling more. A smile will draw people to you and invite them to trust you. A frown or scowl will accomplish the opposite.
2007-09-21 01:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by abdiver12 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don´t have any idea of what you´re talking about....Let me see if I understood...They make all that kind of things because of your face??
I don´t think so...may be it´s your actitude...and please don´t feel bad for this, but may be you are the one that looks them in same way that make them scare, or I don´t known what do they feel...But I don´t think that a face can make someone feel so threatened....
I don´t know, it´s only my opinion...I think you should try to see if there´s something that you could be doing to make them feel that....
I hope this helps...Bye bye
2007-09-21 01:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at yourself in a mirror or your reflection in a store window or something and see if you can figure out what the deal is....
2007-09-21 05:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends how you look at women, i can understand them reacting this way if you look like you are staring at their chest, or looking them up and down.
2007-09-21 03:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by kymm r 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sign language
2007-09-21 01:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋