get closer to their family? Does it really matter what church you go to, as long as you go? Does God care, and would
he see your reasons for switching as self-centered and weak?
2007-09-20 18:24:14 · 17 answers · asked by Monsieur Recital Vinyliste 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
well that is a good one my friend I am a nazarene and nat that is my wife catholic she does not go to church but it is her religion
well my moms side is catholic so it does not brother me.
and if I met some one who was Mormon I wud still marry them
even if it was in there Church
2007-09-22 13:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by edward_church2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend upon the nature of their religion:
It's unlikely that an Episcopalian would have a problem attending a Presbyterian or Lutheran church...they would probably not even have too much regret in attending a Catholic church.
If the family is, say, Mormon, Jewish, a Jehovah's Witness, or some of the new-age religions...there may be some static, or pressure attached by the family toward conversion.
What my son and his wife did--in order to please everyone involved--was hire a female non-denominational minister. All sorts of short prayers were said at the wedding...even Native American blessings...though no one there happened to be Native American. The newlyweds attended said non-denominational church from then on.
One thing that many people seem to forget is that God did not create religions; man did.
In answer to your question, I believe that God's House is God's House--and as long as one praises Him--it does not matter in which particular place of worship he/she does so.
And yes, if I cared sooo much about pleasing the FAMILY of one I fell in love with, I suppose I'd attend their church--------my eldest daughter has converted for that reason only---right? wrong? Who is to say.
2007-09-20 23:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, this actually happened to me.....the choice, I mean.
In the end, it really wasn't difficult for me. It's more like being in two relationships and one of them says "choose now" .....I can't choose between God and another human being, it's a no brainer. God will never leave me, the other guy found a new girlfriend in a week. You tell me which love is unconditional.
And yes, some will say "church is church", but that's not really true. Every church has a Statement of Doctrine that tells you where that church stands on a lot of issues, be careful, churches can be different in small ways that end up being major differences.
2007-09-20 18:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by downsouthrr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't get into that situation again. It is not a good situation and I've both experienced it and seen other relationships die because one thought conversion was the answer. It's a terrible thing when a marriage breaks up because of disagreement over which church the children will attend.
God does care which church you go to because some churches teach wrong doctrines.
2007-09-21 01:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cinnibuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nor would I expect someone to convert for me. I am a Catholic, and believe that we are the Church Christ founded on earth. However, if the other person was a Baptist, then I would prefer they attend their services rather than switch to make me happy.
However, I would not get seriously involved with someone outside of my religion - it's too much a part of my life.
2007-09-20 18:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by SigGirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is always a touchy issue with most people. My idea of religion is not something that can be changed to suit a situation the best, but something between you and god. The bible does say that one needs to be baptised be Imersion to be considered saved. I do not think you should have to change your religion for other people to like you more. They are more than likely using that as an excuse anyways.(Spelling is bad I know, half asleep)
2007-09-20 18:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by yoda1061 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a relationship with someone outside my own faith for years now. I didn't convert, but I do attend her services sometimes. We don't care about getting closer to each other's families (I have almost no surviving relatives, and she's pretty much estranged from hers). I wouldn't convert to something unless I honestly believed in it.
2007-09-20 19:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by solarius 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming we are talking about two Christian churches, I would say yes for the sake of bringing up futue children in a single church.
But if you are talking about Christians marrying non-Christians, well let's just say the Bible suggests aginst that.
2007-09-20 19:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by HooKooDooKu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must go to YOUR church or youll burn in hell!!
haha, just kidding. Remember God doesnt live in a church, He lives in you. He is with you where ever you go. Be happy, believe in him, live as Jesus lived. Thats all he asks.
2007-09-20 18:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Agnostic Rockett 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes he probably does since he wants you to put him above everyone else. It would be weird though if he thought you were self-centered when he expects you to put him above everyone else.
2007-09-20 18:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋