I've been with a guy for two weeks in July and he has been a player. As soon as I felt it, I totally ended our 'casual relationship'. He told me bullshit like 'we had a great time, didn't we?' and other stupid things for me to answer and boost his ego.
Ok, I liked this guy pretty much at first and I had expectations, like a normal human being can have. THOUGH, I resist calling him, or trying to reach him after the 'breakup' and.. after two months, he called me to invite me to a party at his place.
I still want to walk with the greatest dignity.. what should I do: Go there and kind of have fun with everybody and pretending he dosen't exist? Or simply don't even show up there? (I know a couple of friends will be at this party)..
What would help me keep the highest dignity, and what would break him best?? :)
Thank you!
2007-09-20 18:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by Azucar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry about my english, my first language is french :)
2007-09-20 18:16:35 · update #1
make him do everything a player would'nt. PUT YOUR SEXY ON ..and make him catch tha "vapors". 1 thing a player can't stand is for a sexy chick not too notice him.
2007-09-20 18:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by TRUE DONDADA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the party have fun with ur friends there....acknowledge him at least since it is HIS party and see where it goes...if you stand firm by your decision not to date him anymore then theres no reason to feel unsure. Besides going to his party and having fun showing no feelings towards him whatsoever would break him most lol
2007-09-21 01:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well unless he was lying to you, i dont see where he did anything wrong. If he told you from the start it is a casual relationship and you didnt want that, you should have left then.
2007-09-21 01:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you have feeling about him, I would recommend steering clear of him all together. Sometimes playing with fire gets your burned. It might be better to just take care of yourself...I wish I had.
2007-09-21 01:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by angieblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to his party, bring a baguette, and beat him with it. everyone would respect you with the greatest dignity
2007-09-21 01:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would anyone wanna do that? Players are losers and not worth anyones time.
2007-09-21 01:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋