if you know your man really well, and that you know everything about him including his secrets, and you're 100% sure that he's the right man for you, then i guess it's time for you to get married. you don't really want to get hurt, and waste your money getting a divorce. you should have sex with your partner only if you're already married. i know a lot of girls don't value their virginity anymore (no offense), but i think you should. b'coz it's the best gift that you can give to your husband! and don't forget that the white wedding gowns symbolizes purity. so i think if you want to be in the most beautiful white wedding gown, then it's fairly reasonable to stay pure until you get married.
2007-09-20 18:22:59
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answered by kalansangel 2
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Have respect for yourselves and refrain from sex for at least 6 months into the relationship. You will both be glad you did. AS far as marriage is concerned, if you date between 2 and 4 years that should be enough to know he/she is not a serial killer. I dated my now ex husband for 9 years before I got married and it only lasted 21 years. So...you never really ever know until it happens.
2014-02-27 18:31:47
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answered by Maycee's grammie 3
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the quickest I've ever had sex with someone is on the second date. we were really attracted to each other so i didn't see the need to wait any longer. you don't need to know someone for a long time to know whether or you want to have sex with them.
marriage is a whole different thing. its a big commitment that usually results in kids and pooled assets. its not to be taken lightly. i wouldn't get married unless i knew the person for a couple years.
2007-09-21 01:15:55
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answered by Anonymous
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your life might be better off if you don't have sex...yes i mean at all!!!! ok you should know the person I suggest getting married before sex. date one year and keep your paws off then you will know what you are ready for...yes I live in the real world and realize this is uncommon. Maybe though it is the uncommon that make things good
2007-09-21 01:10:46
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answered by just duky 5
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marriage 5 years
sex as soon as your turned on
2007-09-21 01:09:01
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answered by Anonymous
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The length of time that you are with a person doesn't really matter. If your with a person then you'll know the right time for either or both. hope this helps
2007-09-21 01:14:28
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answered by Ladybug355 4
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for sex, day one is a good start, for marriage, dont even think about goin there
2007-09-21 01:08:46
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answered by arebeebee 2
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i asked a question the same as your, but some how it didn't post, or i just did not see it...but i think you should check out mine.
2007-09-21 01:13:36
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answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6
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it depends on who you are and the connection you have plus how old you are ---- there are no rules just let it happen
2007-09-21 01:12:19
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answered by trader1867 7
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