Im normally a shy person in my past.. and i was just wonderin if i start dating.. how do i deal with telling someone that i dont have alot of friends because i was really shy... It just feels uncomfortable to have to admit to being like that....
2007-09-20 17:58:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Starting to date? or wanting to find a mate? or starting to mature? decide what you want first.
Maybe you best find a really good friend online. Find people who match your morals and interests in life. Learn to be honest and straightforward and understand that confidence comes along with practice in being that.
If you share your thoughts then you share your unique self. Don't try to make another happy - be honest with yourself first then you will reflect that in your friendships/relationships in life.
Furthermore you don't have to admit anything to anyone. Everytime you meet someone it is always the beginning of something that follows if you are true to you first. Don't try to measure up to anyone's standards - meet your own. There is strength in that. Use expression (words) not impression and you get what you deserve.
Life is a journey and if it was perfect hey there would be nothing to learn - boring! take control of you :) believe me I know! much experience - much learned and I'm up for friends to talk life!
2007-09-20 19:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by electrick_dreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason why you have to explain the number of friends you have?
And there isn't anything shameful about being shy, if you do feel like you have to justify the number your of friends. It shouldn't make any difference.
2007-09-21 01:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by LaSperanza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they are going to figure it out sooner or later! The world needs shy people like us too, so don't be so embarrased about it. Unfortunately, easy emabarassment usually goes hand in hand with being shy, so... just tell it like you told it to all of us!
2007-09-21 01:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by saralizzy1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her but at the right time. you dont want that to be the first thing she finds out about u cuz shell get off on the wrong foot with you. wait till you get the chance to really talk and open up, then tell her.
2007-09-21 01:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A truthful relationship is a strong one.
Tell her.
She loves you for who YOU are.. no matter how many friends you have!
Best of Luck!!
⥠Hannah
2007-09-21 01:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by juliet88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie , that is so cute,id be your friend and id let you hit it..who would refuse you A truthful relationship is a strong one.
Tell her.
She loves you for who you are.. no matter how many friends you have!
good question have wonderful weekend . good luck .-B-
2007-09-21 01:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u are selective in your affections,that its not that u are not sociable but u are a family oriented guy,thats part of your personality and if u are gonna date anyone she will eventually find out anyway.
2007-09-21 01:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by nataly_23_h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the doctor and ask for a big injection of self esteem
2007-09-21 01:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by arebeebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so cute..id be your friend and id let you hit it..who would refuse you
2007-09-21 01:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by lalalala! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give them a giant dirtpie to the face
2007-09-21 01:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋