so my friend told the guy i like that i liked him and he kinda freaked out. and said he only liked me as a friend. then that same day he did this thing where he dropped his pencil and picked it up and smiled and looked back at me. i dont want him to freak so should i tell him that i only like him as a friend and that it was a mistake and see how things go then??
2007-09-20 17:53:18 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really only like him as a friend, then it should be made a point, otherwise I think you should just leave things as they are... Maybe he thought he only liked you as a friend until he'd had some time to think about what your friend told him... Who knows he might be realizing he likes you more than what he originally thought, because it was unexpected and he was caught off guard!!!!! Good Luck! No matter what you decide to do....
I'm hoping for a happy ending for you on this one in one way or another!
2007-09-20 18:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by not perfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.
So what if he knows you like him. Give him something to think about. Its the best thing your friend did for you because you probably would never tell him. The guy is now testing you to see what you will do.
Life is a game and play the game with him.
Put on a cute short skirt, drop a pencil and bend down to pick it up. Look at him then turn around and walk away with a swish with the hips. ATTITUDE. Not Ghetto, but girly
Men love games, alot. If you play enough games you will win him. Trust me i went through this.
It took me over 1 year to win the heart of my now boyfriend. I tried lots of games. He told me he loves games. So i kept playing and i won. I have been with him over 3 years now and we now have a 4 month old baby
2007-09-20 18:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Buff Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hold off on doing this, since you really don't know what he is actually feeling. Your friend sort of put him on the spot, so there is a chance that he freaked & said the friend thing as a panic response.
If you go for the "only friends" thing, there is a chance that you may end up looking deperate or ruining a chance of him actually liking you. If it ends up that he really only likes you as a friend, playing it cool will show him that maybe you really only did like him as a friend.
Don't worry-- in a month it'll have all smoothed itself over. School romances & crushes usually run fast & furious, but a month later no one remembers the crash & burns.
2007-09-20 18:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself! Part of life is sticking to your guns. Rejection is not something you can avoid forever. You are a more attractive person for being able to say with a smile to him, "I think you are awesome and I am totally attracted to you. I know you aren't looking for a relationship, but no matter I do really enjoy your company"
It not only says you aren't some cowering idiot hinging yourself on someone elses reaction, but it allows an open honest dialogue that maintains your own self truth.
*Don't label anthing as a mistake unless you REALLY think it was one
*Don't lie about your feelings. It makes you look like a flake.
*Don't get all hysterical and bent out of shape if someone doesn't like you LIKE THAT.
2007-09-20 18:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dale W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you like him so just keep on being you. The ball is basically in his court right now. Just enjoy the flirting and if something is going to happen, let it happen on it's own. Don't keep throwing balls in his court... he'll get annoyed with you. One day at a time sweety!
Plus, if you like him... don't you want him to know? If he doesn't know then he might not make a move to go out with you. But since he does know, maybe he'll ask you out. If he thinks you only like him as a friend it may turn him off to ever liking you back.
2007-09-20 18:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you continue to pursue him you'll just freak him out more. He may very well like you but was just nervous. He may also not like you at all. I think you should leave it alone for a while and let things calm down and see how things go from there. Honestly pursuing someone is the worst thign you can do to get them.
2007-09-20 17:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, because maybe your friend exaggerated or he just acted that way in front of your friend out of surprise or awkwardness
Just see how it develops, he knows how you feel, if he returns the feeling he will show it, if he doesn't you can just stay friends. Just act naturally around him.
Telling him you didn't mean it will only make things worse because it forces him to talk about it with you, with which he might not be comfortable.
In case he really just wants to be friends, pretending it never happened might be the easiest way for both of you.
2007-09-20 18:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ithilien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! the damage has been done already hun and i think that the guy will begin to look at you in a new way. He might notice something new about you and take an interest in you. Since he knows that you already like him he might see it as an easy was to break the ice.
2007-09-20 18:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ladybug355 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats the best idea. Once he feels that theres no pressure to be dating, he will feel a lot more comfortable hanging out with you. I hate that when guys freak out, it makes the girl feel uncomfortable at the same time. Hope it works out well with you.
2007-09-20 17:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by hurley59gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?!? Are you really going to continue in this endless circle of "oh, I only like you as a friend, because YOU only like me as a friend", or are you going to admit that you really like him on a higher level than that?
He only said he likes you as a friend because he was feaked out, & he didn't want to risk showing his true feelings to your friend. Besides, he was afraid of who she would go & blab it to next. He wants to just keep it between you'n'him, don't you see! So wait for a time when you can tell him in private that you like him a lot.
You don't get romance without some risk. :-)
2007-09-20 18:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋