If you started seeing someone and it felt awesome at first, does that mean things are headed down?
2007-09-20 17:46:08 · 18 answers · asked by Sidereal Hand 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, but that will not ends there. After the height and the fall there a higher felicity will follow. Just enjoy the ride!
2007-09-20 17:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why down? Are you that much of a pessimist? Why not consider it as a probably good relationship, maybe not "awesome," but good enough to keep going out with this person. I really wonder if you are basing your thoughts on previous relationships that might have been short-lived. That is why we date - to find out if we like the other person, over good times and bad. So, if you are happy now, and the other person is too, just keep up the good work and enjoy yourselves.
2007-09-21 00:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is awesome, but you EXPECT it to go down, then it'll happen. Just stay in the mindset that the relationship is all that you could ask for right now and hope it lasts forever. At least one relationship has to last a lifetime, right? Maybe it's this one.
So dont be pessemistic or doubtful, because if you are, that will have an effect on the relationship. =]
2007-09-21 00:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Melonball 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, actually it means the total opposite! It's a very good sign! That's similar to the way I felt, when I met and then married my husband, 17 years ago. To this day, I still feel, I'm the luckiest person in the world, because my husband is still too good to be true and with no doubt, always will be!
2007-09-21 00:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Chihuahua Addict Adores Scooby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm basically going through the same thing now in the relationship I'm in ...
In the beginning it was flaming hot , he would say his face lit up every time he sees me...
I was taken by him every time id see him ...
Last week I realized that the flame is fading out , he is losing his new car smell , I even have tried to avoid him @ time's..
I think our relationship is getting too predictable, the same ole plot everyday, I really like him , don't wanna lose him , but also don't want to be in a lonely relationship...
2007-09-21 00:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Esencia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think that? When I met my husband I felt like things were like fireworks. Now 6 years later, after 2 1/2 years of marriage and a baby later I still feel that way about him. He still rocks my world! :)
2007-09-21 00:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by bsdude2002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't mean things are heading down. But do make sure it says true. And if it doesn't know what to do and move on.
2007-09-21 00:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by cheesydud@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really. but most of the time they do.
most probably your relation is just fresh.
out of 12 relationships, i had great first 6 months and trickles down after 6months - 1 year of active premarital sex.
Sex seems to be the culprit of failed relationships. i wonder why.....
Good luck!
2007-09-21 02:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by jace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg...i have been going out with my bf for almost a year and from day ONE, it felt awsome...and now it still is...and always will be. if you ever feel things arent going how you want them to all you gotta do is talk with ur bf/gf and it will work out.
2007-09-21 00:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by ☆ღღ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if you are actually willing to keep the relationship going and if the person is who they really say they are...
cuz from expirience you really want to know who they really are! my ex i found out cheated on me....and i thought he might've been the one...so it all depends on the 2 of you!
2007-09-21 00:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by bounceyflutechik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋