I have a lot of stress and I don't know who to talk to. I want to ask my mom but I don't want her to worried so I just want to use this site for the people who wanted to read and I also want some comment if you want to leave one. I like this guy 'A' at school since the first day of 10 grade. I have him for one classes. I don't even think he like me, he doesn't really look at me at all but I wasn't really sad because I don't even know how much I like him. I really want to be a person who like one person and will always be. I feel like I am a slut or something. whenever I see some guy. I would like them. I would get scared if i do something embarrassing in front of them. My inside is like who care what they think, but i just can't do it.Whenever they come, I would show off a little. The problem I have is that I think a lot and I don't even know why. I think when I read and I think when I walk whether it at school or home.That is just giving me stressed and I have bad dream every night.
2007-09-20 17:43:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Your stress, as you call it, seems to arise from your self image; your evaluation of yourself in the image you imagine you project to others. Ask your mom, really, she will know how a teenage girl feels because she was one once. She will sympathize with you and offer comfort.
Your avatar name is "happiness". To really attain happiness one must know they are loved unconditionally by a least one other and have at least one other to love in return. You have your Mom and Dad to fill those roles but are a teen so are looking for new relationships out side those parental bonds and agonizing over them. The old love bonds can be a help in this transition.
Another need for happiness is to be satisfied with who you are and what you have as long as those possesions satisfy your basic survival needs. Still another is to have something worthwhile for your mind and body to do that gives you and others gratification.
These last two are somewhat spelled out for you in a school environment but you can work on improving your satisfaction with your self by working hard to do well in studies, realizing that you are an important person to others, stop putting yourself down and start ignoring those who seem to put you down.
It is normal to think a lot; people who don't think a lot are mentally abnormal; we were given our minds for a purpose, to think. Just strive to stop thinking negatively about things. THINK POSITIVE!
Good luck, good mental health, peace and love!
2007-09-20 21:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asalam Alykum to all my brothers & sisters in Islam, MashaAllah this was just amazing, I really enjoyed reading every word of it. Subhan Allah, it shows us how we have to thank Allah and ask for His help for thou he is the most compassionate, most Merciful. Mommy2be Jazash Allah Khair for this wonderful and inspirational story, and information, I really appreciate it. By the way May Allah ease everything for you, May He bless you with a wonderful child that will always keep your head high by InshaAllah being a great Muslim(a) & InshaAllah he/she memorizes the Holy Quran &follow the Quran &Sunnah. Ameen Ya Rub. May Allah help guide humanity through the right path, &May He bless our hearts with joy &happiness always. Ameen. Peace &best regards &as always my best wishes are with you
2016-05-19 22:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Be yourself. People should be liked for who they truly are at heart and in person. If you act like yourself and normally, you will find that you won't worry about things such as that as much.
2007-09-20 17:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Todd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋