So theres a guy that i like alot and hes a real big flirty type guy, and he just got in trouble for s3exual harassment for doing the same things to another as he does to me, and all he does is lie gives hugs so what gives?
2007-09-20 17:32:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Sexual harassment" is a very interesting issue.
AND WOMEN ONLY CALL IT THAT,
WHEN THEY DON'T LIKE IT.
You just proved that point.
You already LIKE the guy . . . . so YOU DON'T consider it "sexual harassment".
Another woman does NOT like the guy and suddenly exactly the same behavior is called "sexual harassment".
So you will notice that the line between "sexual harassment" and "flirting" exists ONLY IN HER HEAD.
"WHAT GIVES?" . . . . is RIGHT. - LOL!!!
Example:
Some unattractive guy approaches her and says "hey baby, let's get it ON", or makes a physical move on her. . . . . she will call it "harrassment".
BRAD PITT says "hey baby, let's get it ON" and makes a move on the same woman . . . . . and she will be on her back with her legs in the air faster than she can say "ANGELINA WHO?".
LOL!!!
When a woman IS IN LOVE with a man, and he anonymously leaves a dozen roses on her doorstep . . . she will think it is one of the most ROMANTIC things he could possibly do for her.
When a woman IS NOT in love with a man, and he anonymously leaves a dozen roses on her doorstep . . .
. . . .POOF!!! He's a "STALKER".
LMAO!!!!! But 100% true.
So . . . "what gives"???
We'll leave it up to the ladies to figure that one out.
;)
2007-09-20 17:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Where did this happen? If it happened at work, hugs are usually inappropriate and could be taken that way. Usually any type of that activity is inappropriate in the workplace and is dealt with pretty severely. If this happened at school, then it may have been a violation of the rules.
2007-09-21 00:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by bigracingfan2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of girls dont like the touchy feely type im sure that he did not do anything really wrong at all so i wouldnt worry about it. if all he does is hug people then hes not dangerous or anything he just sounds like hes very open go for it im sure he would be a great guy.
2007-09-21 00:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Chance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big area. If someone is offended by what is being done, can be considered harassment. This includes something as simple as hug. Even if it was something that someone observed, but not actually done to them. If it offended them, it could be considered as well.
2007-09-21 00:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by Wanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual harassment started out as.... you give me a bj or I will fire you .... now if a guy says "broad" in front of a girl she cries "sexual harassment!!!!" and wants his balls and $$$$$. Who said life is fair.
2007-09-21 00:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A key component to sexual harassment is "unwanted attention" - you already said you like him a lot so its not unwanted and therefore not sexual harassment.
2007-09-21 00:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the other girl didn't like it, or the hug was forced, that's sexual harassment.
2007-09-21 00:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by xiaozelda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has a huge problem and if you keep messing with him so will you.......
you can fool all the people some of the time
and some of the people all the time
but NEVER 3 women saying they were sexual harass.....
when a light comes on....look around with knowledge not with feelings
GET AWAY FROM THAT PREDATOR.....
2007-09-21 00:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by LITTLE_JOHN 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he liked that girl a littleeee too much.
And grabbed her or something.
I'm sure it wasn't just for a hug.
2007-09-21 00:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by dontouchmedontrustme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it all depends on how the person feels about it.you dont care but some one esle could take it offensively.it all depends on the person
2007-09-21 00:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by mercinary73 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋