Me and this boy have a history and we had an arguement and havent spoken to eachother in a month. then he calls me and we start speaking again my feelings for him have not changed but he tells me he's not looking for a girlfriend basically saying he wants a make-out or sex buddy. ok this guy knows me and im a virgin. im not easy at all. so my question is cant he go find some other girl to mess around with, who is alot easier??? why me i understand hes young (17) and wants to have fun but just not with ME . i know there is girls who like him. nothing about me says whore i dont get it!!! help me out!!
2007-09-20 17:30:35 · 9 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did tell him no.....but i just want to know why me???
2007-09-20 17:34:46 · update #1
if that is all he wants right now then just leave him cuz he isn't worth it if that is all he wants. you are going to get hurt and do something that you will regret if you stay with him.
2007-09-21 15:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥.blondy4eva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. That said. . . to answer your question and help you understand. . .
It's obvious he is attracted to you. . . or you wouldn't have a past. And as a man the fact that you are a virgin makes you all that much more attractive; not to mention people usually want what they can't have. Why go for the easy score (slut), when there is a challenge in getting a pure prize worth having(you).
2007-09-21 00:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he want a sex/make out buddy with u if ur a virgin? i would say no cause ur feelings for him might grow and then u'd be stuck liking a jerk that only wants one thing from u and nothing more.
2007-09-21 00:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then you need to be the one to stand up and tell him to back off. guys do not think with their heads all the time. don't get pressured into something. be safe!
2007-09-21 00:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by suggargurl302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE's really weird, trust me.
He's trying to imply basically that he wants a "whore..."
Now, in that context,
would you want to be his "special someone"?
2007-09-21 00:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by xiaozelda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just using u, he thinks tat with the feeling u have, its easier to get u on bed.
2007-09-21 00:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser. Stay a virgin and tell him where to go.
2007-09-21 00:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say no? this seems pretty simple to me
2007-09-21 00:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel
2007-09-21 00:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋