at what age should a girl: start drinking? going to parties? having sex?

Question

at least your opinions, or what age you were when you first did _____.

Answer 1

When you are adult enough to handle the consequences of your actions.

Answer 2

A girl should start drinking at home during her early teens, and just a little, like half drink regular drink or 1/4 cup of wine once to several times a month to get familiar with alcohol. It is better to learn the effect in a safe environment than later when she is likely to get drunk and end up gang-banged.

She should go to parties as a young child and go to parties where there is drinking at age eighteen. She should avoid rowdy parties or leave if they become rowdy.

If a girl plans to get engaged and married by age 22, she should not have sex until she is engaged or married. According to the Center for Disease Control by age 20 about 80 percent of women that do get married have had sexual intercourse.

That means only about 20 percent of the single young women between the ages of 18 and 22, the prime age for getting married are virgins. However, most young men prefer to marry a virgin or be a girl's first. By the law of supply and demand, that gives virgins a big advantage in getting the better husbands. Most young guys will not choose an average looking virgin over a very pretty non-virgin; however, when the girls are otherwise equal almost all young men will choose the virgin.

If a girl doesn't plan to get married until her mid to late twenties, she should start having sex at age eighteen because there is no advantage in waiting. For example, there is nothing attractive about a 28 year old virgin and may be less desirable than a 28 year old non-virgin.

Answer 3

First of all there is no where, where it says that you are supposed to do those things like party and drink! First decide what you stand for... This is your life and you have to be happy with it no one else cause only you are livin it. So I would wait on the sex thing until you are for sure inlove, and skip on the drinking for awhile- its not that cool and when you start do it with friends you trust cause you wont know your limit, and someone (guy) can take advantage of you.. so keep that in mind. Now when you go to parties just make sure you have a friend there with you and make sure it will be somewhere and the right time for you so that you have fun. Maybe start going t parties Junior, senior year in high school adn wait till sex for afterwards cause the guys outside of high school are much better! I hope that helps. Don't rush yourseslf, be happy with your choice and don't let anyone pressure you! have fun!

Answer 4

DRINKING?? How about the LEGAL AGE!! That's a HUGE "duh"!!
I believe a girl should be 16 if she's going on a date with a guy, as in not a group date or double dating.

And as for having sex??!! Now that really depends on the person and how mature they are, but I honestly believe they should AT LEAST be out of high school first. I realize a lot of people may not agree with me, but I'm not on here to win popularity contests.

I was 16 before I was allowed to go on a date with a guy in his car, just the 2 of us.
I tried a sip or two of alcohol before I was of legal age, but honestly didn't really have drinks til I was 21. I'm not a huge fan of drinking anyway because it can be just as dangerous as drugs.
As for sex, I KNOW I was too young the first time!!

Answer 5

A girl should start drinking when she's 21, since that is the legal age in America. A girl can strart partying at 17 but she should be a responsible partier and a safe one. And In my opinion a gilr should not have sex until she's married.

Answer 6

For me all very different ages..You can go to parties and have fun at much younger ages...(16-17) without drinking. I can see by the time you are 18 drinking a bit at the occasional party.

I think sex is a totally different topic that should not be mixed with parties and booze. Sex is a personal thing that you share with someone you love,,,,,,and where booze is not the pushing factor. Sex should start when you are ready to handle the emotional complications that always come with sex. I think its best to wait until you can clearly say why you want to do it, and they feel the same.

Answer 7

The thing with drinking is sensitive. I guess you should not get used to it when you are young. It all has to do with the upbringing. My kids, I have allowed them to try alcohol since they were little kids.... and now they never drink, it is simply not interesting or "forbidden" for them. Alcohol is very dangerous and addictive and young people should avoid it.
Parties... i guess around 16.
Sex... is better for mature persons, who are grown up and understand their minds and bodies. I think today there is some kind of social pressure, to be popular. Young persons who have not had sex at young age are considered outsiders and not "in"... I think sex should be experience when the time is right with a person you love and who loves you also, a bond that is profound and lasting...not like going to eat Baskin Robbins Ice cream. The first experience is fundamental and might structure the sexual health of years ahead. But anywhere around 18-20 is a better age to be a person with stronger structure and self confidence.

good luck

Answer 8

21 is when you should do it. Some people do it at 18, but I don't think that such a good idea. You're in a better stage of mind at age 21 & 22, that is most people anyway. Still some dummys out there though, it's like you never left highschool when you get around them. A post to them woudl be "GROW UP" & if I was you I would wait. Don't have sex until your married. All making love will do is get you dinner and a movie, holding out will get you a lot more in life.

Answer 9

I agree with Jet. Mainly because they have proven that drinking alcohol causes permanent damage to the Grey matter of the brain,a little causes a lot of neurological damage. and the risk of so many diseases now spread by contact,sexual and even kissing(there are many diseases that have been allowed into the country) you cannot be cautious enough when it comes to sexual contact and even sharing your breath with others and visa versa. The world has changed from what it was and many of these diseases are not treatable or curable.If that is what you want then think of the other people who do not have diseases that you may eventually give to them if you want to play around. As far as parties go,many girls have been drugged at many parties and some end up missing or worse. so be aware,the world is not as safe as you think it is. There are some universities who have a course about the damages of alcohol to the body as a required course now. For Real.Be prepared.

Answer 10

You can go to parties at any age, but can get arrested if you start drinking before your 21 years old. You should be able to start having sex around that age too. Any younger, and a guy might take advantage of you and you would not want that. Having sex too early, and having a bad experience, could lead to problems later in life.

Answer 11

Sex when your married, drinking at your own wedding is OK and the parties come when your children have birthdays.


I was stupid, had sex at 15 (did not enjoy it, was way too young, in fact it hurt). Got pregnant, had a son at 16 and so now my partying days are over, can't drink because I have a son to watch and well sex is out because the father took off and now I have this "not so good reputation with a lot of parents because I already had sex and got pregnant, so I don't have too many friends either...

Have the sex on your wedding nite, drink occasionally with your husband and throw party's at your home or go over to your friend's party's and enjoy life.....