this guy mite ask me out tomorow but i have nevr talked to him before and only seen him once.. so i dont know him.. what do i say if i wanna go out wit him?? like how do i say yes ??in what way and how do iact??? once i say yes of course ur in the weird situation..right?? wut do i say once we r together?? idk please help meeee!! thank u so much.. o and im 13.... should i ask him to the ice rink that night?? or wut please answer all mi questions... best answer 10 points.. :)
2007-09-20 16:17:55 · 11 answers · asked by blondiieee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u shouldnt have a boyfriend... all guys want is... you know..so don get one now or u lose everything
2007-09-20 16:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're too young for a boyfriend. When you are ready in a few years you won't be asking all those questions. If you truly like someone you won't have to think of things to say and you'll come up with things to do together. Trust me- don't focus on guys right now. Figure out who you are first. But if you're not going to take this advice then go somewhere in a group. And just be yourself. And no kissing or you're grounded.
2007-09-20 16:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by whisperer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes when he does unless you dont like him or hes really ugly.I have said yes to guys I dont know before and we end up being great friends even after we break up. If i were you I would say yes,and as far as acting around him, just be yourself.Tell him whats on your mind.Oh, and if he looks sad one day or something, DO NOT ask him "What's wrong?"Because they hate that.Don't talk about whats going on.If he asks you "what's new" or omething, they dont like having a bunch of girl problems dumped on them.Thats for your girl friends. As far as inviting him to the ice rink, don't.Its going too fast and he'll get kinda weirded out by an invatation that quick.Good luck!
2007-09-20 16:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by love_me_dani 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right, im 15, and in a similar situation, inanswer to ur questions:
1) b urself, dont make the mistake of being sum1 ur not just to impress him, if he dont like u for who u r,if he tries to change u, hes not worth it.
2)JUST SAY YES!!! honestly, its as simple as that, or u could do wot ive done in the past and nod with a smile... if u do want to go out with him, otherwise say no.
3) as for what to say when ur with him WHATEVER U LIKE!!! guys really like talking about themselves, so ask him questions, find out more bout him, get to know him, it will also solve the problem of not knowing the guy,
4) guys like confident girls, but they dont like girls who appear desperate, so leave the ice rink for a couple of days or so, b4 u ask him
5) JUST RELAX!! it should never be wierd, ok maybe in ur situation, having only seen the guy once and neva spoken to him, but if u follow my advice, and just relax, it wont be. if it still is wierd after the first 3-4 weeks, its not a relationship worth being in.
2007-09-20 16:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hunny ur only 13 and if u gotta ask what to do and what to say then ur not ready to date anyone. live life and just be 13. im not calling u immature hence i dont know you lol but as u grow older and mature u will know what to do when and if someone should ask you out.
2007-09-20 16:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't talked to him before then he isn't your boyfriend... But you should just talk and act like you would if you were with one of your friends.
Once he says something along the lines of lets hang out... just say yea sure that'd be fun. Have you done that or heard about that before? Act normal.
2007-09-20 16:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise you that every guy in the world wants a sweetheart, you will gain the most ground and build the strongest relationship by being kind and loving (Sweet).
Best of luck!
2007-09-20 16:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool and be yourself. He asked you out for a reason right? Be Yourself, and just ask him things like, how's you're mom & dad? or something like that heck ask him what his favorite color is? You don't know him so what's the worst thing that he's going to say? "I'm not telling you?" which I doubt will happen. Just play it cool. ;)
2007-09-20 16:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ask Phoebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely be you. If he asks you a query do not attempt to respond to what you think of he needs you to assert. answer particularly. prepare your authentic emotions. If he tells you a shaggy dog tale and you do not think of it humorous in any respect, don't sense compelled to chuckle. Like I stated purely be you.
2016-10-19 06:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you're too young to have a boyfriend.
2007-09-20 16:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋