my boyfriend asked me to marry him,he's 19 years old and im 18 years old. i really do love him more then anything in the world. we have been together since i was 13 years old.
do you think we are too young?
2007-09-20 15:50:04 · 18 answers · asked by Erikka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think im too young but im just asking you opinion because my mom thinks we are...
2007-09-20 15:53:58 · update #1
awwwww how cute. honey if you feel its right do it. just listen to your heart.
2007-09-20 15:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen people your age get married and be Happy together. However it changes depending on the people are you ready for this level of commitment. Also you have been together since you were young make sure there is not going to be the feelings that you missed out on the whole dating experience as this is not a good feeling to have in a marriage
2007-09-20 22:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are too young to be engaged. It is wonderful that the two of you have been dating for about 5 years. You need to finish your high school, if you haven't done so. Then go to college, get your degree, get a stable job, and THEN get engaged and get married. If you really love each other then both of you can wait for a few years.
2007-09-20 22:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 19 my fiances 20 n we'r getting married next month (he's in the Marines). I think age is just a # as long as you are both mature n ready for this next big step.
Is this the person you want to spend forever with? Do you have a good form of communication? Can you talk through your problems without having a big fight? Do you trust him with all of your heart? Does he help you through your own personal problems?
If you answer yes to all then I say go for it! (I was asked all of those ?'s earlier today) CONGRATS! N GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-20 23:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound about the age i want to get engaged with my gf we are both 15 im almost 16 right now dating since 12 and 13. so i think its a fine age but why are you asking are you unsure or having second thoughts because you should only go through with it if you are sure you can be together for the rest of your life. hope you make the right choice good luck!~!~!~!!~!~
2007-09-20 22:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tozer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you're heart is into it you should go right ahead I am also 18 years old and I am engaged my bf and i have been going out since for 6 years and I am completely happy with my decision.
2007-09-20 22:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
statistics show that over half the engagements/marriages that occur under the age of 25 end up in divorce within a few years, so you can be a statistic but its worth a shot if you believe in your heart that you two can work out for the long run
2007-09-20 22:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by BBONKERS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,you are. go to college first and make sure you have plenty of money to start a family. Think how much a wedding, house ,car food , expenses like all the stuff for a house ,lamp ,bed stove and if you want to start a new family. So it would be best to wait .
2007-09-20 23:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by hola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-09-20 22:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats!
Just take your time b4 marriage.
even if the engagement is 2-3 years --SO WHAT!??
better to be safe than sorry later---ya know half of the marriages in the USA end in divorce--so learn all you can about each other and be open ABOUT EVERYTHING!!
2007-09-20 22:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. wait. and i'm not talking months. do you want to be able to drink (legally) at your own wedding? at this rate you could potentially be a mom by 20. once you guys have lived together for a while, in your own place (no parents), and each have jobs, see how you still feel.
2007-09-20 22:56:58 · answer #11 · answered by maxfan4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋