Im not really experienced in flirting and having a boyfriend, and i like this much younger guy (im a senior and he's a freshman) and he rides my bus. I have only really talked to him twice. cause both times he sat in front of me. We both sit in the front. I really didn't know what to talk about with him, but he's new and doesn't have that many friends and is kinda shy. The problem is that he has an identical twin who is very different. His twin is more outgoing and popular. and i think that kills him cause he wants what his brother has. but at the same rate his bro seems more angry all the time. I just want to know how to flirt with him and what to do to get him to notice me more, im not one of those popular girls that i would think he likes, im more of that drama kid. but i still dress nicely and i want to know how to flirt more wth him and what to talk about. Please help!
2007-09-20 15:49:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and about being a freshman, he's really mature for his age, its his brother that acts more immature and i can't tell them apart yet. So i kinda have to wait for him to say hi to me first. Im not sure if he likes me, while we were talking some guy came and sat next to him and they started talking about sports, but not to me,even though he knows i like them too. But then, he said he was glad he was gone to me after he left, and as i was getting ready to go he just stared at me until i turned my head then he said by.
2007-09-20 15:52:51 · update #1
You're actually in a pretty good position. Most freshmen guys dream of going out with an older girl. Another thing you have going for you is that he's new. That gives you a way to meet him without it looking weird - you could tell him that you know that he's new and then invite him to something low key where there are other people around. Something where you'd get a chance to talk to him and see if you have enough chemistry together. Don't be afraid to pursue him a little at first. Good luck!
2007-09-20 16:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Goldmind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe everyone should start as friends. Talk to him about where he is from, what he did there, what he likes or does not like where he is now. Do not be an "in your face" person. He needs to adjust to new area, etc. Let him know you care and be there for him if and when he needs a friend. That will go a long way. It worked for me. We have been together 17 years. Good luck!
2007-09-20 23:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Betty S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be someone you aren't. Trying to make conversation is the first step. Ask him how he likes the school, his new home, his teachers, his classes. Ask him about where he moved from and why. Ask him what music he likes, what movies he's seen recently. The more the two of you talk, the easier it will get. When you feel comfortable, you could offer to help him study, or even ask him if he might want to come to your house to watch a DVD.
2007-09-20 22:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by pinksapphire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think their is no problem with you. You must be true to your self. Show him the real you. And tell his twin that he must be ashame of himself. He acts like a kid. Childish attitude. So what if he is popular. The thing is popularity is not enough to conclude a matter of things. Just be true to your self and smile.
2007-09-20 22:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by Randol Mendoza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act angry that you can't tell him from his brother. then give him a ring, or button, or bracelet, or something like that for him to wear or show you that will let you know it's him. but be cute about it. demanding, but in a girly way. that way, its something both of you will share for yourselves. and most importantly, just be around him more. people date because they have common, attractive interests. you cant get to know his common interests unless you're around him. and vice versa. the more you hang around to get to know each other, the more it will already seem like you are dating. other people will asume you are dating. until either he comes out with a "i'm not trying to date anyone" line, or a "do you want to go friday night?" line. if he's the shy one, be aggressive. he likes his brother you say, wants to be that guy. he will be attracted to that kind of lady (i'm guessing). give it a whirl, i'm pretty sure i'm right.
2007-09-20 23:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey! dont worry, the perect oppurtunity will come and you just have to be youself. just try n find out his intrests and when u speak to him you will have sumthing to talk about, 4rm then ur relationship will start. but dont try to hard, becouse then you'l show the wrong inpresstion. start of as friends.
Good luck .
2007-09-20 22:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by SAM K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit next to him on the bus ok? don't say anything, just pull a HUGE black dildo out of your bag. start licking it.he'll look at you odly just contrinue. slowly strip. very slowly. make pleasure noises.keep this up the entire way to the school. then just collect your items, get off. don't say a word.the next dau, do the same thing, except bring a condum.
2007-09-20 22:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Logical Rationalist 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should sit with him, maybe pretend theres no other seats left...? try to be friends first and then as your friendship develops he`ll most likely tell you more about him and maybe more will come out of it :)
2007-09-20 22:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him questions out hmself lik his favouit sport and get sam tickets 4 maybe his sport or smthn
2007-09-20 22:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by xoxohotdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a senior, he's jail bait. Go play with a guy your own age.
2007-09-20 22:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋