i dn't know what to say . my life has been like a fairy tale to me . Nothing i do will ever make me happy , and nothing i am will ever give me the love i never received from my parents , and since i do not wish to go along with their wishes and be in an emotionally unstable family relationship . i am alone .
This girl , i used to like , she broke up with me because of my jealousy ( she doesn't understand that it came from the way i was brought up , it was a fight between me and brother to win our parents love - even the slightest thing causes big fights , it shouldn't have been like that . my parents should have loved us for what we were , and not what we could do for them )
She broke up a few months ago , and 2-3 days ago she called ( i am sure it was her , eventhough it was a private call )
Now all the feelings are coming back into my mind and the more i try to stop it i can't . and if i dn't think about it then i feel like i have no purpose in life , or as if .........
2007-09-20 15:33:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
.....there is noone who can ever understand me . The blunt and honest truth is , i loved her with all my heart , and i am afraid if i will get hurt again due to this jealous nature of mine , and i dn't want to get hurt , also don't want to hurt her )
i don't feel like doing anything . i have my citibank school loans to put in diferment , my car/insurance payments , my 3 cc payments , fix my car (it started making a noise yesterday from the right front tire ) ..i don't feel like doing anything . i truly wish she hadn't called , or else i would've never thought of anyhing like this . i just want to move on , but i can't . i am stuck and i feel soo down as if i am worthless.
2007-09-20 15:36:22 · update #1
Focus on what you want
Get a goal to concentrate on
Don't let anything else get you down
When you feel bad, put on some happy music and dance around
Start eating healthy
Be as positive as possible
Write a list of all the things you don't like about your life, then burn it
Afterwards, write down all the things you want, and put that list near your bed
read it daily before you go to bed, and after you wake up
Your life will turn itself around, just hang on
2007-09-20 16:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Shaggy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sucks today and it will probably suck for a couple of more months but you will get over and come out on top!! Obviously you guys werent meant for each other. Just keep taking care of yourself and get your life on track and dont worry about her or any other girls right now. Try to get your life in line the way you want it , then worry about girls!! good luck
2007-09-20 22:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sherie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but you can't just give up. Self-pity won't get you any where and if its not pity then self-destruction won't either. You have to pick yourself back up because no matter how bleak it may seem, no matter how dark the path ahead may be; just remember that after every night the sun rises again. Things always get better, they may get worse before it does but remember, it will get better if you at least try.
2007-09-20 22:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by SPC Kenny B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no purpose in life -------think again is this the only purpose for which u are here -lefe is great with big and more important purposes, these kind of thinks will happen in life,
--i am translating the great urdu poem to u---
thougt to die in search of peace -what will u do if u dont get the peace after death---
leave all this go for a walk right now enjoy life
2007-09-20 22:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by dhirpateria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not alone, please believe. There is help out there. You have to want to get help, no one should feel as low as you do. You really need to get in touch with someone in Behavior Health, what you are experiencing and going thru is not healthy.
You could also go join a Gym, work out your issues, while running on a treadmill, lifting weights.
2007-09-20 22:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, but try getting dumped as a single mom -that's even worse. talk to someone, a counselor, anybody. You aren't alone in these crappy feelings. Life sucks.
2007-09-20 22:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋