Sorry this is a long one.My mother-in-law passed away 4 years ago. My father-in-law started dating 2 weeks later. He dated several women who really did not care about having his children or grandchild in her life. He did meet one lady about 5 months later. No one had a good feeling about this woman. Come to find out I dated her son when I was a teenager and am still good friends with him and his wife. (They helped take care of my daughter when I was in the hospital for a while before my mohter-in-law passed away). My husband and his sister have not ever gotten along with her. She has changed my father-in-law. They were married a year ago. I never know what to call her because she will never be my mother-in-law. I always say she is the woman my father-in-law married. Does anyone have this going on. Serious answers only please.
2007-09-20 15:04:04 · 4 answers · asked by redneckokiewoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't disrepect your father-n-law, hes a big boy, and his wolrd is spinning too fast. But allow him to make his own decisions! As far as his new wife, you'll have to adjust, or hurt his feelings! When introducing them, introduce,"this is my father-n-law, name, and his wife, name>" This is polite, nonhurtful, and says it all if the listener is paying attention!
2007-09-20 15:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!
I think you are approching this right! I know it is kind of uncomfortable, but it is your Father N Laws decision to be with who he is with. I would just except the the situation for what it is.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-20 22:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel but its his life if he is happy isnt that what really counts
2007-09-20 22:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by just_a_nice_guy_from_ks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really
2007-09-20 22:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Yuki Ookami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋