My Professor in my CISCO class treated me like crap this past Tuesday and humiliated me in front of everyone. Then when I raised my hand to participate, he ignored me. Today I got kind of irriated that he did not have the exams online and said how can I take them if you don't have them online, duh!? He responded very rudely and I lashed out right away since I have trouble with impulsiveness. Now I know I'll probably end up getting suspended from College cause I've done this before to others.
I don't want to go on, screw this piece of **** life! I'm crying as I write this question. I have no motivation to do anything on the computer, in my rental house or anywhere else either. It must end tonight, I'll find a way out of this crappy piece of **** life.
2007-09-20 13:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by jeff_south_bend_78 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
First you clearly know that you have some issues that need to be dealt with so my advice is to seek out help for your problems and then make sure the collage know about your issues and that you are getting help. hopefully they will also support you and help you through this. tell them how you are feeling and why you can't stop doing these kinds of things and they should support you through everything. take care good luck never give up.
2007-09-28 12:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its four days later. Hopefully you followed some of the good advice listed above my answer.
In the future don't let an instructor get the better of you. Crack down on the material and make him respect you, technical instructors respect knowledge and dedication.
Also, by being prepared you are less likely to act impulsively, play out the question or "act" in your mind before you ask it.
You WILL meet more people like this instructor in your life, some of which actually enjoy making people feel the way you do now. By following some of the suggestions from the others here you should be able to live through these moments.
If you want the instructor to be humiliated, how about you place a test YOU have made online and browse to it in front of the class. While revenge isn't good in the long run, it will make you learn the material.
2007-09-24 03:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nojunk N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow your impulsiveness to take over. I think everyone (including myself) who has gone through college has experienced a problem with a professor. If you really think that this is becoming an issue that you cannot deal with, I would go to the head of the department or dean and tell them your situation regarding this professor. I don't look at it as sneaking behind their back but rather "voicing your concerns" about a potential problem and if you are not being treated equally in class, then it is a problem as far as I am concerned. Also you may want to consider talking to someone such as a college counselor regarding your impulsiveness and see if they can help or point you in the right direction.
Anyway, get through the semester and hope that you never have to take him again for another class!!
2007-09-21 02:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by cgflann 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call either the police and have them take you to a hospital for help or call a suicide crisis hot line. You're severely depressed and need help right now!!! Ending your life may seem like the end to your troubles and in a way it would be but it would also be an end to hope and any chance at happiness that you have. Yes life can stink, it can be hell, but it is worth living. By the time that I was 14 I'd had three major operations, two brother's die and a I'd been treated for depression since I was nine. Since than I've had four more operations, two more siblings die along with two partners and having to place a child for adoption because I couldn't take care of her. I've also had three other children whom I love and cherish and who give my life great joy. I've had the love of a partner whom I would never had met if I'd given up and killed myself. I've done things in my life that I know have counted fro something in other people's lives. I would have none of that if I'd given up when I wanted to. I won't lie and say that I'd never thought of suicide I have but I 've also realize that the pain and frustration were only temporary. And that I would be darned if I would let the depression get the better of me. I have chronic depression and I"ve dealt with it for over 40 years so I know that life can be hell but it can be beautiful and rewarding also if you give it a chance and don't throw it way because things are bad now they can get better if you're willing to get help.
2007-09-20 14:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
god. what are you studying? why have you, as you say "I've done this before to others" you only get what you give out.
sounds like you have some serious anger problems. you can't keep consoling yourself as the victim. excuses are easy to find they are a way of making yourself avoid the reasons behind your behavior.
find out what you are so angry about for a start. start being honest with people about the real issues and start taking responsibility for your own life. you can change or you can stay the same - whats the point or use in that? yea. i have had serious issues in my life - we All do - that is the quest in life - learn, move on - or wait - for what?
what is it that you are so angry about? hey - just trying to help.
2007-09-28 00:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by electrick_dreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH. Slow down. You're in college and you're still very young. That is a tough age (but also a fun age if you let it be) and you're stuck somewhere between an adult and a child and everything is changing. THIS STAGE WILL PASS. You will get through it and will learn a TON about yourself in the meantime. Hang in there, seriously. You're too young to think that nothing will get better from this point. It will.
2007-09-28 06:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by NatBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. Its only a semester. If its too bad then drop the class and pick a different professor. However I recommend sticking it out and laying low. Life is full of people who you wont get along with. It just makes you appreciate the ones you do get along with so much more. It will get better. You should just do something to get you out of your funk. I usually go shopping or go get a coffee I like.
2007-09-20 13:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This to will pass...like other crappy moments in your life
Don't dedicate your life to a response(s) from a high and almighty teacher (your life is worth more than that). You are obviously upset. College may not be the answer. It's ok to take time off and re-evaluate the direction you wish your life to go.
2007-09-20 14:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
College is really hard and sometimes you get professors who are just @ssholes. I had a nervous break down in my first yer of College and had to be hospitalized. Go to a counsellor, most colleges offer free counselling. Don't do anything rash. It's ONE lousy course. This too shall pass. Good luck:)
2007-09-20 13:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by sheyna 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What you do is sincerely apologize to the professor. People are most forgiving and accept apologies. This should straighten out your school problem.
You will then feel better about your life. Give it a try and do it tomorrow.
2007-09-20 14:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by Marguerite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋