i know that a guy is going to break up with a girl, should i tell her?

Question

we're not very close, my friend told me that the guy told him.
the girl is 13 and the boy is 18. it was pretty obvious it wouldnt last.
they've been going out for months (i forget how many)
theyre always hanging out of each other and lovey dovey in school. she seems to only hang around with him. but apparently he's getting sick of all the babytalk and whatnot. plus he's leaving school next year. plus he's way older.
should i forewarn the girl or just mind my own business?

ok im gonna let it be lol

Answer 1

First, you don't know this 100% - how do you know for SURE unless the guy HIMSELF told you...

Perhaps the "friend" you heard it from WANTS the guy to break up so that HE can start dating her...



And second - YES, you should mind your own business ;););)

Answer 2

Mind your own business. Of course, 13 year old + 18 year old = problems, so your friend should see this coming to her. But for most people, the break up is the best part and the worst part at the same time. If the relationship is getting weak, people need to hear the bittersweet of the break up FROM THEIR EX. Then they need to cry and cry for days, and then they didn't to be p*ssed off at their boyfriend until they find someone to go out with again. So, mind your own business and you'll be good.

Answer 3

A word of caution....Mind your own business, If you feel this older guy is exploiting your friend then by all means put her wise. If it is just a case of "puppy love" on her part and he is just being the "boyfriend" for now, then leave well alone. She is in the throes of first love, he is looking to sow his wild oats! Mentally and emotionally they are probably the same age, but sexually they are not! It is so important that your friend accept they are moving in different directions. he will be in the great wide world whilst she will still be thinking of passing exams. Childhood sweethearts can work, but not that often,. you can help by boosting her confidence and showing that there is more to her life than keeping a boyfriend....In a nice supportive way yeah!

Answer 4

in the first place what is this little girl doing with an older boy. But as a good person you should tell the girl but you have to be very careful she does not think that you want to get with the boy.This is all about morals.

Answer 5

I would say no, because even though u knw something. Its better to just let people handle their own problems. U knw?..
Its just better off to go on about ur life, even if its ur friend, U wouldnt want to get caught up in the middle of all tis drama, because then she would want you to try and find out why he wants to break up with her.

Answer 6

The latter leave well alone, and just be there for her.where is her mother she is supposed to be guiding her 13 going out with an 18 year old ridiculous!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

As it is no business of yours, ''No.''

If it is 'obvious it isn't going to last,' then ~ let it die of its own accord and then let it rest in peace.

Most kids look like and behave like ~ 'Kids' ~ in their own arrogant and naive little ways. Nothing changes ~ but the fashions ~ which come around in circles.

Sash.

Answer 8

Just Mind your own business because it was meant to be. The age range is way off and they guy would have to wait till he was 23 to get anywhere near marryin her.

Answer 9

mind your own business. the only time you should interfere in other people's lives is maybe when someone is being hurt in some way

Answer 10

I would mind my own business in this case. You will only gain a reputation for muckraking. Mind you it is your choice.

Good Luck.