i have got married 4 months ago and i teached her all about my family members that what they like and what they dont like specially about my self but she still do anyting against me i dont know in which way should i tell her to do the right 4 me and 4 my family ?
2007-09-20 05:55:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She is her own person and she can do what she wants. The better you treat her, the better she will treat you. If you do nice things for her all the time, she will WANT to do nice things for you and your family.
You haven't been married long. Just give her time. Treat her really well and do special things to surprise her. Bring her flowers, gifts, make dinner for HER sometimes, take her out. Do things for her that she likes and this will make her want to do nice things for you.
2007-09-20 06:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean your trying to teach her what you and yours want this is the 21st century mate.
Do you know what she and her family want.Probably not.
Your sad mate.Going on about how she aint doing what your family wants, she married you not them.
Was it an arranged marriage?
2007-09-20 14:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by mistress midnight 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I teached, specially, do, anyting, whats your IQ mate,
minus a gold fish
2007-09-20 13:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seeing how your English is a bit sparse can you translate please, i get the jist i think but I'm not sure, are you saying that your wife doesn't do what you tell her, and isn't being a slave to the rest of your family, because that's what it sounds like.
2007-09-20 13:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she don't like being ordered about, she might be married to you but she has her own mind.
I'm married and I don't grovel to my husband, I'm a human being, and don't like being told what to do and when. She's probably better off without you if your going to treat her like a dog.
2007-09-20 13:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
From what I can understand about this question.... it now belongs in the "marriage" section, as the wedding is clearly over. :-) Sorry the marriage has been disappointing. Perhaps you should seek therapy?
2007-09-20 13:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you speak to her in the same way as you write, she probably does not take you seriously.
This is the 21st Century and no one controls their spouse any more
2007-09-20 13:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Denise H 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's a human being, not programmable robot. And if she didn't know these things before you got married, why the hell did you get married?
2007-09-20 13:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
what about her right or dose she not have any. you don't teach
her about your family she fits in with who she like to your family. marriage is not a ball and chain anymore equal rights for both sides. you keep that and she will leave. and I would understand why
2007-09-20 13:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by mamsy0 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
your making this up aren't you. if i was her i would not understand you anyway. if you are telling the truth you need mental help with your control problem ..
personally i think you are making the whole thing up to start and arguement
2007-09-20 13:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by IHATETHEEUSKI 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋