how to administer a spanking?

Question

how do you spank a person

Answer 1

I am assuming that you are asking about spanking as a punishment for a child.

I put my daughter across my lap, with her panties lowered. I use my hand to slap her bottom hard enough for her to feel a good sting with each spank. I continue for several minutes, concentrating on her lower butt cheeks. She cries, kicks her legs, and begs... I stop when I feel she has had enough.

I give her a hug... tell her that I love her... talk to her... give her privacy... talk again later, if she likes. My daughters usually take an hour or 2 to compose themselves and they need the time to think. They do not always want to talk later but sometimes they do.

Before the spanking, we always discuss the reason and they know exactly why they are getting spanked.

Answer 2

Although you do not specify it in your question, it sounds like you are asking how to spank a child. I have three children, two daughters, aged 11 and 8, and a 4yo son; and I spank all three the same way. First I take the child to another room, I do not believe in spanking a child in front of anyone else, the only other person I will allow to be in the room is their mother. I then ask them if they understand why they are getting a spanking. Once they acknowledge this, I will pull their pants and underwear down to about their knees and take them over my lap. I then begin slapping their bare bottom cheeks with my hand. Each one is a good solid swat that makes a sharp crisp sound a leave a red mark. I move back and forth between the bottom cheeks. Don't go any higher than about 2/3 of the way up the bottom because you take the chance of accidentally hitting them on the back, however the lower part of the bottom cheeks where the cheeks connect to the upper thighs (commonly called the 'sitspot') is very tender and is an excellent place to spank. I do not deliver a specific number of swats, I continue to spank until I feel the child has been properly punished for that particular offense. When you are done the child's bottom will be a even shade of red, however of you spank to the point that you are leaving bruises then you are going over board. Now the child is going to kick, wiggle and squirm during the spanking. This is not an act of defiance, they can't help it. Placing your left hand in the small of their back is a good way to keep them pinned in place. Of course they are going to cry, beg, promise to be good...but don't let this persuade you, one you start the punishment you need to finish it. After the spanking make sure you hug the child and tell them you love them, this reassurance is very important.

Answer 3

That really depends on if you are spanking an adult or a child. With adults, there are several positions such as: over the knee, diaper position, on the stomach, on hands and knees, touching the toes, etc. These positions can also be used for children, but OTK is the most widely used.

Secondly, you can use your hand, a paddle, switch, tawse, anything really that isn't made of metal and doesn't have any sharp edges (or something that won't break like a china plate). For children, many use simply: hand, paddle, or strap to get them in line.

Then, warn your spankee as to why they are being punished: talked back, etc. You can a) send them to wallow in their fear by placing them in the corner or to their room b) start immediately. I reccomend B because A has a sadistic quality to it that children could not handle, nor would I want them to.

Put them in the desired position. If you are spanking for more than three minutes, then spank on the bare because damage is easily avoided. On the other hand, with children, you should not be spanking longer than this amount of time so leave their clothes on! If you feel the punishment would not be harsh enough with the clothes on, then use an implement to deepen the pain.

You can judge when to stop, they can not be the judge. Depending on the offense, you can use a certain amount of swats or number of minutes. Lecture them, this is quite important. Then, hug them afterwords. As their care taker, you must take responsibility for the pain you just caused them. You must hug them, reassure your love for them, and let them cry (if they are) in your arms.

Answer 4

Probably the best would be to turn the child over your lap, bare their bottom and spank them with your hand. After, give them a hug and make sure they are aware of what caused them to get a spanking so they don't do it again.

Answer 5

spanking: -- a series of vigorous smacks, on the buttocks, with the open hand, or suitable implement, in punishment

With that as the definition, then you "administer a spanking", "how do you spank a person: -- by applying a "series of vigorous smacks on the buttocks", AS PUNISHMENT.

You do NOT beat, you do not spank for pleasure, you do not spank excessively. You do it as a learning experience for the child (or teen, definitely not fun for him and it should not be for you either).

Of course, explain the WHY before, and afterwards assure them you still "love" them but that as their parent you also have the responsibility to punish.

Answer 6

you have to remember that this is just a child that you are giving a little smack on the backside too, it isn't Joe Lewis and you don't have to beat the living daylights out of the kid. Personally I hate spanking kids and have found that a very stern talking to while maintaining firm eye contact is much more effective.

Answer 7

That completely depends on if you are using physical violence (spanking) to control your child or if you are using consentual erotic spanking to enhance your sex life with your partner.

Answer 8

Over the knee, on the bare bottom, long, hard and lovingly. And always end with a hug.

Answer 9

Interesting topic!

Answer 10

It depends