Me and my girl been together for almost 4 years, we love one another and also we already got 2 kids (they 1 one year apart). One thing about our relationship is we never have sex ever since she had my son. She had my son as vaginal section and the doctor did something that is not right to her. So now everytime we trying to have sex, shes pullings me out because shes hurting so bad and she told me its burns her inside. So I respect her and I told her go visit the other doctor and see whats wrong with her. She came back with the result and she says that she got an infection because of what the gyn did to her. Is not all about sex, but I think that in a relationship you gotta have sex in your life especially me. I love her and I don't wanna live her but I dont know what to do.
2007-09-20 01:43:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You both need to go into her gyn and talk to him/her about what is wrong and what can be done to fix it. I have a hard time believing that they sent her home and told her to never have sex. If she has an active infection they should be treating that and will be able to tell you how long before sexual activities can resume.
In the mean time, why don't you step up to the plate and be a man? You have had two kids with a woman you are not married to. You know that's wrong, and a man certainly does not abandon his family and his woman because of sex. Yes you have to have a healthy sexual life but this should be temporary.
2007-09-20 01:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Puerto Rican, I'm from there too. I must tell you by my own experience that if you keep trying to have sex with her knowing that she is hurt, things will never work out for you. You weren't to specific about what the Dr. made to her, and if she got an infection due to malpractice, she should sue the Dr. but , going back to you, If you are not sweet and comprehensive with her, letting her know that you are there for her, and not putting more pressure against "sex" matter, your relationship will last. you as a man need sex, she as a woman need to be nurtured and loved no matter what. she is hurt, did you get it?? she is trying, for you, did you noticed? please, don't be so sellfish and understand the situation. put yourself in her shoes for a day. Hope you can find a "happy medium" to deal with this situation, but only if both respect each other and have patience with each other. Who said that marriage is easy? no es solo tu, ella es tu esposa y te necesita. Suerte!
2007-09-20 02:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by suddenlyheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋