Im a muslim but go to a catholic school. what do i do in masses please help me\!?

Question

I attend a catholic sixth form and im clueless on what to do when i attend a mass, im a muslim and when they give out the host thing i dont know what to do if i dont take it what shall i do????

Answer 1

I was an Atheist in a Catholic School, so I kinda know what you went through.

You are in no position to dictate a change in school policy or even excuse yourself (since you consented to go to a religious school). You may just have to go along with the crowd. I would imagine that they would allow you to politely refuse the host, just stand in line like everyone else, when your turn comes, just quietly wqy "No, Thanks" and move along with the rest.

As long as you are not making a production about it, no overtures of trying to force the school to accomodate you, you should be fine. Remember, it is a Catholic School. Separation of Church and State does not apply there as it does in Public Schools.

Answer 2

You should not try to participate in communion (the handing out of the host and wine). That is a part of the church ritual for believers only. You can simply remain seated. You will notice others do this, not only muslims but some catholics also, for various reasons.

I have attended many catholic masses and other religious ceremonies, even though I am not a catholic, a christian or even religious! The mass and other ceremonies of faith can be very interesting and beautiful.

For me, the best approach has been to watch what others do and then follow suit. If there is someone you are particularly friendly with, you can ask them about the different parts of the ritual as it proceeds.

Alternatively, you could ask one of the priests or religious (nuns or brothers) at the school.

They are usually happy to discuss aspects of the ritual and liturgy with anyone who is interested.

Mostly, what I like to do is behave respectfully, without being dishonest to my own beliefs. So I listen respectfully and quietly, but I don't accept communion or participate in any of the rituals or ceremonies intended for the faithful.

Cheers :-).

Answer 3

If the problem is conflicting religion then you should speak to your head teacher and inform them of this. Some catholic schools will force you to go to mass though as it is normally in their rules that you sign when joining. If this is the case explain to the headmaster you will attend but can not be expected to take part in prayer, communion and other things but you will sit there quietly. think of it as a great opportunity to broaden your knowledge on other religions.

If you do want to take part go and see the priest. He will gladly take you through the basics and will teach you anything you want to know or are unsure of. This way by next mass you will be ready to go.

Answer 4

Taking the host is done by catholics who have been through there first communion. Just sit in the pew and watch everyone else you will not offend anyone. I think it is great you get to experience this even because of your schooling. You will learn a lot and so will the other children. Besides Ramadan is kinda similar to lent. Expect catholics don't fast anymore unless they choose to.

Answer 5

It is pretty easy- you stand when everyone stands, sit when everyone sits.

Depending on your school, you may or may not be required to kneel at the Consecration. ASK YOUR TEACHER.

DO NOT receive the host. That is only for Catholics.

Depending on your school, non Catholic children in attendance may be offered a blessing from the priest. ASK YOUR TEACHER. All you do for that is cross your hands over your chest and bow your head.

This is a link that tells you what happens at Mass.

http://www.americancatholic.org/Newsletters/CU/ac0889.asp

Answer 6

Thank you for showing respect by asking. And welcome.

Please:
+ If you feel comfortable then pray and sing with the rest of the congregation.
+ Sit and stand when everyone else does.
+ If you feel comfortable kneeling during the Consecration then do so, otherwise sit.
+ Out of respect do not to receive Communion, according to local custom, and only if you wish, you may approach the altar with their arms crossed over your chest to receive a blessing.

Here is an outline of the Mass:

+ Introductory Rites
. + Entrance (All stand)
. + Greeting
. + Act of Penitence
. + Kyrie Eleison (Latin for "Lord have mercy")
. + Gloria
. + Opening Prayer

+ Liturgy of the Word
. + First Reading - usually from the Old Testament (All sit)
. + Responsorial Psalm
. + Second Reading - usually from a New Testament Epistle
. + Gospel Reading (All stand)
. + Homily (All sit for the sermon)
. + Profession of Faith (the Nicene Creed) (All stand)
. + Prayer of the Faithful (prayers of petition)

+ Liturgy of the Eucharist
. + The Preparation of the Gifts - the bread and wine are brought forward and placed on the altar, our monetary offerings are also collected at this time (All sit)
. + The Prayer over the Offerings (All stand)
. + The Eucharistic Prayer - during this prayer the bread and wine change into the Body and Blood of Christ (Catholics kneel, visitors may kneel or sit)
. + The Lord's Prayer (All stand)
. + The Rite of Peace (We offer each other a sign of peace)
. + The Breaking of the Bread
. + Communion - non-Catholics are requested out of respect not to receive Communion, they may approach the altar with their arms crossed over their chest to receive a blessing (Stand or kneel according to local custom)

+ The Concluding Rites
. + Announcements (All sit)
. + Blessing (All stand)
. + Dismissal
. + Procession

For more information, see the General Instruction of the Roman Missal: http://www.usccb.org/liturgy/current/chapter2.shtml#sect3a

With love in Christ.

Answer 7

Just sit or kneel and listen if you´re interested.

Actually, did you know that both Muslims and Catholics have a deep reverence for Mary, the Mother of Jesus? I didn´t.

Answer 8

When you grow up, you will neither be Catholic nor Muslim.
May be you will turn Aetheist. It happens to lots of Catholic school graduates.

It is Stupid.

I think your parents want you to succeed in material life. But your soul will end up being empty and vulnerable to every temptation. You will have trouble recognizing wrong from right.

Is that you or your parents want to do to you?

Answer 9

If you are a Muslim you just have to tell the priest. He will understand and I am sure he will not force you to attend mass.

Answer 10

wen u attend masses...just close ur eyes n read some surahs or repeat the word ALLAH...take the thing...bt dnt eat it...just leave it on the bench or gv it som1 else..its smtg of value to them....so dnt dis-obey it!!!