My brother is dating this girl that nobody in my family likes except my dad, my mom doesnt even really like her. She's rude, she makes nasty comments, put my brother down, talks to my mom however she wants then kisses her *** when she wants something. I used to like her now shes just a rude ***** that keeps pushing my brother to get married and its only been a year and a half. Hes changed for the worse, hes stingy and he doesnt care about anyone except her family. I know i cant pick who he dates, but he always dates trashy girls.What can i do besides tell the ***** off??
2007-09-20 00:33:10 · 3 answers · asked by Jules000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ive read comments from people, and i just wanted to add some more detail to it, my brother is a grown man, and i think its my job as his sister to watch for him just as he would for me. His gf is all about money and thats it and thats not how we do things in my family. She's the type of person that can say whatever she wants to anybody but we all cant say a word to her, if she dont say hi to her we get in trouble by my brother. Its a lose lose situation, i am nothing but polite to her, and when she is around i look for a reason not to be around.
2007-09-20 02:23:24 · update #1
Edited to add: Just responding to your comment Jules ~ we've all been there with family members changing when they get with someone who doesn't fit into the family. IT's just a fact of life, it happens.
And no matter how heart breaking it is (and it is!), there really is nothing you can do except hope that one day your bro will wise up and realise he's let his family slide for someone who wasn't worth it.
However, if they do start a family, he will doubtless be with her for good, so basically, you can learn to like it or stay out of the way. I'm speaking from personal experience as well as in response to your Q.
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You can't do anything. She's your *brother's* girlfriend! It's up to him who he goes out with.
Just make yourself scarce when she's about, and don't get into talking about her behind her back. Be polite when she comes over, then find an excuse to go to your room or go out, and leave her and your brother to themselves.
Deal her out of your life if you don't like her, but do it in a grown up way.
Others in your family can take responsibility for whether they like her, or not, and what they do about it.
Cheers :-)
2007-09-20 01:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by thing55000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can mind your own business unless she openly is rude to your mother, then you can step in and CALMLY say "we don't talk to our mother that way and I would appreciate it if you would not either." Your brother is a grown man who can make his own bed. You don't want to alienate him, but distance yourself. If she is truly like this and you are simply not jealous, then the marriage won't work and he'll be back. Men don't think with the big head, you should know that being one.
2007-09-20 08:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another case of act in haste, and repent in leisure, isn't it?
2007-09-20 07:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋