A parents worst fear is what I'm living now. I found out my boy's been molested by a 14 year old foster child who lives at his Dad's house, with my 4 year old daughter watching. I've called CPS. I've hired a lawyer to get sole custody of my children. The 14 year old initially denied what had happened to CPS, but admitted what she's done to our children to their Dad. I'm scheduled for counseling to begin, but am wondering what will happen at the "Forensic Investigation" at Children's Hospital. I'm so sorry if you've experienced this with your own children, but I'd appreciate your input.
2007-09-20 00:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by Susan 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
they most likely wont find any evidence on your children unless its happened today. or yesterday. not sure though. this child most likely wont be charged. shes in foster care which means she was abused somewhere also. most likely sexual abuse. i have been sexually abused and treated and could never inflict that kind of pain on anyone. but for those who were abused over a period of time it becomes what they expect. they think its normal. so they act out what they crave on others. yes your children need help but so does this little damaged foster child. instead of pressing charges ask the courts to get her into proper therapy,
the cps will talk to you and your kids your childs dad and the girl in question they will remove the girl from your kids dads house. she has disrupted she will most likely be put into a group home. your kids will need counseling. and understanding from you. they dont need to be ripped from their dad this wasnt his fault. and the courts wont grant your sole custody. this is one of the risks involved with fostering kids.(my mom worked in an emergency shelter for abused and neglected children) she saw everything. good luck also you shouldnt post anything on the web about the case. it can get thrown out for it and discuss it with no one
2007-09-20 00:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I just wanted to express my sympathy to you. I was abused as a child and everyone chose to let it go, they put a stop to it but that was it. I just wanted to tell you how wonderful it is you are getting your children the help they need now, it will save them in years to come.
I would assume it is a physical examination looking for physical evidence.
My thoughts are with all of you.
I do believe you should get custody, it may not be his fault but as a parent you choose who you expose your children to. Do not let people's comments get you down, and if its happening in the home (the dads) I honestly don't know how he could not pick up on the fact that something was going on.
2007-09-20 02:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Coffee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to tell you how sorry I am you are having to experience this. And I'm even more sorry for your children. How could their father not know something strange was going on in his own home, with his own children?
I am happy to hear that you are getting your children help. I can I know what they will go through later in life. It sounds like you are doing the best possible thing for them.
Good luck and I hope you and your family can recover from all this. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong for your children, they are going to need mommy more than ever.
2007-09-20 05:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by smcginnis79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular, if she would be in a position to no longer arise take her to the wellbeing facility in the present day. or you could call her wide-unfold practitioner and ask her what you're able to do! I easily have had turning out to be pains in my legs and that they harm soooooo undesirable! i'm able to understand the soreness that she is going by! different than, i ought to stroll so i think of which you will take her to the wellbeing facility perfect away! Or seem up "Excruciating leg pains" on the information superhighway and notice what they arise with or what you're able to do approximately it! i desire for the main suitable and stable good fortune!
2016-10-19 04:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by genthner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just wanted to say that I'm sorry for what's happening to you. This is a sensitive matter and I don't know what they are going to do but just keep being a strong and good mother for your children's.
2007-09-20 02:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by tootsiebrownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, but wanted to say: I am sorry you are living every mother worst fear! I feel sick thinking of it!
I hope everything goes ok for you all!
Best wishes and much love
Charli
2007-09-20 00:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋