the thing is that we keep talking on the phone and e-mailing each other i know she loves me but i dont know what to do or where to go from here
2007-09-19 23:17:37 · 13 answers · asked by David L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on whether the reasons for splitting up were petty. successful relationships sometimes takes maturity and self sacrifice. love overcomes many hurdles but you both have to agree to work through things. communication is the key to that.
2007-09-19 23:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you split up several times bc it wasnt working, what makes you think that it will work now? The only way it will work is if both of you are willing to work on the relationship and both of you are willing to change. If not, then you will be in the same situation as you were when you split up to begin with.
2007-09-20 06:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how serious the arguements were. If they were about things that the two of you can work out, then you just need to talk and work out some ground rules for the relationship. If they were serious issues that can not be resolved, then it is time to move on and find someone that you are more compatible with.
2007-09-20 06:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that u have split up several times means its not working out, think about why u broke up in the first place, before u even consider getting back together
2007-09-20 06:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by babybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once an Ex always an Ex. Thats the rule, forget the past look optimistically at the future.
2007-09-20 06:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling David; do you realize that you are doing the best thing you could possibly do? That is communication. As long as you and she fell the same way keep the lines of communication open and , if it is right between you it will work out on its own.
Good Luck
2007-09-20 06:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Queen Cinbad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nothings changed. If it didn't work out the first billion times its no going to work out the next. Try and move on, that doesn't mean yous can't be friends!
2007-09-20 06:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kawaii-Kitty! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her and take some decision that either you will not fight or split or you will have a great relation
2007-09-20 06:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Vikram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "It's called a breakup, because it's broken" by Greg Berhendt & his wife, Amiira - than you will find the answer to your own question - good luck
2007-09-20 07:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by salunagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, start thinking about your future. Stop thinking about your past. If you can see her in your future go for it...but remember you both broke up for a reason!!!!!!!!
2007-09-20 06:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋