Guys do you like being cared by your girl? Do you like your girl to be caring and sweet and being loving?
I love my guy very much but it seems that he doesnt love me back anymore...
I told him I wanted him to be mine forever... I told him I want him to be the last guy in my life but he told me that I should not expect too much so that when the time comes for him to go, I would be okay.... I told him I love him completely but he just told me that I should not love him a hundred percent....
Do you think he loves me? or do you think he does not love me anymore but he is trying not to break my heart?
Guys help... Im going crazy...
Are guys really like that?
2007-09-19 22:54:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK (JUST THINK) HE LOVES YOU BUT THINKING THAT IF HIS FAMILY DON'T GIVE PERMISSION FOR YOUR MARRIAGE, YOUR HEART WILL BE BROKEN.
2007-09-19 22:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That sounds like a very tough situation. It could be that he wants to break things off and doesn't want to hurt you because he still cares about you. Or maybe he is going through some depression right now and that's his way of dealing with it. I think you should really have a talk with him about exactly what he meant by that comment. I hope things work out for you.
2007-09-19 22:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry hun, but it seems to me like he's trying to tell you that one day soon he'll be leaving!
I don't wanna say it but that's what it sounds like!My man would never say anything like that to me, no way!I'd say that he does still care for you a lot, because he's trying to work round it so as he doesn't hurt you too much, but it really seems to me he's trying to get out, without hurting you, and taking the cowards way.
Talk to him, ask him why he would say something like that!Ask him if he still wants to be with you.It sounds to me like he doesn't, but that he's gonna wait a while to finish it coz he doesn't want to be on his own!
If he's going to be like this, which I think is really horrible, then don't let him call the shots, if he says that one day he will leave, then as hard as it may be, you leave him!Don't let him think he can do what he wants when he wants,that's probably why he's acting the way he is now!!
Good luck mate, don't let him decide that he's going to leave but not yet!!
Hope it works out well for you hun!x
2007-09-19 23:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a shock when you find someone so wrapped up in his own world that even though he coaxes you into his life, he then treats you like you 'owe' him the 'help' and throws your sincere feelings to the wind. I have a 47 year old male neighbor like that. Spoiled and using women all his life. Don't waste your time on this species. Anyone who doesn't appreciate nice people in their lives deserves to be with their own kind. I was told a long time ago by a very rich and beautiful woman who saw me buying cold medicine for my then boyfriend at the store, "Kate, don't spoil them." I thought it harsh then but after the way I was treated I think she was a thoughtful and helpful soul trying to warn me. Many blessings to you.
2007-09-19 23:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by sliverofmoon2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m not a guy, but I`d like to answer ur question if u don`t mind. Ur coming on too strong and clingy. Men do not like to be suffocated. He is not ready for such a strong commitment and is trying to let u down gently. Take the hint and back off, ur actually scaring him away by ur declarations of love and wanting him to be YOURS forever. A man is not a possession, he is a separate entity and needs some space to breathe. Cool down a bit, u might see a change.
2007-09-19 23:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does love you; but seems like he just doesn't want to be committed to anyone; not just you. Don't crowd him about it. Let him make up his own mind and do what he must to have his own peace.
He is dealing with issues that makes him uncomfortable. Don't nag him.
2007-09-19 23:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is seems as though your pushing the "love" onto him a little too much. I'm sure he is aware of your love for him. Guys get "creeped out" when you fuss over them too much. They like the girl who doesn't show too much affection, so shes exciting and a bit of a mystery. If you fuss over him too much he'll get bored or frustrated and that will be the end of the relationship.
2007-09-19 22:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kawaii-Kitty! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 posibility behind them, they are : He does'nt loves you anymore or He is a wise guy. But let me now first, how old are you and how old is he. Are you both a student ? Has your family know him much ? You can explain completely to me.
Perhaps I can give you advise after I know both of your background, you can e-mail me or send Yahoo messenger.
2007-09-19 23:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by fransagt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you but he doesn't sound like the commiting kind. Ask him if you can look for someone else then........ That's what I say to my wife when she acts all fed up with me..... Lol, she says, 'go ahead' but she doesn't mean it and she's normally nicer to me after that...... Funny, I never tell her to go off with someone else. But, I tell her, 'leave if you want, I'll just get some fresh p*ssy'..... Lol, marriage. I'm devoted to her really.
2007-09-19 22:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow... you do love him, huh? sorry girl, i think he's fallen out of love.... if he did say those things. I'm sorry... but hey, try to lighten up! Maybe, you can do some things to spice things up. rekindle your love. but if doesn't work out... you just have to survive through it.
2007-09-19 22:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by kiera30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he doesn't want you hun. I'm sorry , but move on hun.
2007-09-19 22:59:47 · answer #11 · answered by Tyra 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋