She has only wore it 3 or 4 times for me in 5 years. She knows I find it very sexy and attractive. I don't even expect her to wear it outside the house either. It would be nice if she wore it for me with a nice skirt and stockings or suspenders once or twice a month. Am I being unreasonable or asking to much? Is this something you would do for your own boyfriend willingly with no fuss?
2007-09-19 22:24:45 · 31 answers · asked by Shirt-n-Tie-Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey you only live once, Id do anything for a bit of fun for my man!
I'm intrigued whats the attraction???
2007-09-27 22:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by Aruba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you done for her in return?
If she's not comfortable with it then you really shouldn't push it or nag. Everyone is different and what is sexy for one person may turn another off.
Just remember that relationships are a 2 way street and people tend to resent things when the subject is constantly brought up.
To answer your question. I wear a tie and shirt along with men's brogues in public and to work. I don't wear dresses or "conventional dress" for women.
If a guy asked me to start wearing a dress or "sexy underwear" or whatever and I was seeing him, then I would wonder why he's going out with me in the first place. I would deem this as "trying to change me". I wouldn't choose a man who needed "fixing" or changing.
2007-09-20 05:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not too much to ask for. I would do it for my b/f he wanted to. Actually, I find shirt and a tie sexy on a woman, with high heels, and a little make up. I would do it with no fuss. Too bad I don't have a boyfriend.
2007-09-27 08:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Je T'aime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I would and I would prefer this to some other costumes but I suspect it does absolutely nothing for your wife and she just can't see the big deal in it. Maybe you could ask her to choose her own outfit and see how that works. It is possible that what she chooses might also be unappealing to you. Would you be prepared to wear something that might 'do it' for her and what if it was something ridiculous that made you feel stupid, would you still do it? Just trying to get you to see it from the other person's perspective.
2007-09-20 05:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Papooselet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is odd. Now if she wore a tie without the shirt, that might be something, but I sure wouldn't let her leave the house like that.
2007-09-20 05:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not odd if my husband found it an turn on i would wear it a lot, have you told your girlfriend how you feel, maybe you have not put it across how much it means to you, because you been together 5 years you must be able to talk to her about things like this by now?
2007-09-20 05:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a sexy shirt,a tie and the rest of the outfit you like so much.
Ask her to wear it for you and return the favour by doing something for her that you know turns her on...
2007-09-20 05:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by jancoetzee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this woman has been with you for 5 years, and she is still only your GF, then she should tell you where to get off the boat, where to put the shirt and tie, and the quickest way to get them there!!!
2007-09-27 21:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would try it out for my bf but if i didn't like it much I don't think I would want him asking for it all that much. Maybe you should just have a talk with her about it, find out if she is comfortable with it or not, if she is then ask her if she could do it more often. I wouldn't push it too much if she isn't comfortable with it, it could make not want to have sex as often. Good luck.
2007-09-20 05:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it, I would do it probably once a week.
If she loves you and wants to be with you, she should realize that your wants and desires should be fulfilled as well.
But also, you have to consider things from her prospective, would you put on something very feminine for her?
You cannot expect her to do something for you that you wouldn't consider doing for her.
I mean really, your desires could be a lot worse...
2007-09-27 20:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by meloniebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋