i have a BF since one year and half
i feel deep inside me that he will not marry me
he always has something to say
i really need to finish with him
how can i do without appearing as a killer??
2007-09-19 21:45:19 · 8 answers · asked by dina_sas80 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is the reason you are wanting to end this just because you feel he wont marry you or because he has expresivly said this and if so is there not an alternitive or comprimise. marrige dose not by any meens = love there are many loveless and pointless marriges out there. Marrige of course is fine yet make sure that it is for the right reasons, he may at this stage not be sure of his wishes in regards to that rather than leave do you not think it would be better to respect that and maybe find an alternitive to the situation.
This has been a year and a half you dont just throw away that much time and effort, communicate, comprimise and try and work your diffrences out. As for sensitive men well arent we all sensitive it is not just men when we love or care for someone weather we be a man or a woman and we lose that person ofcourse that will hurt. Consider this it takes alot for a man to allow you into his heart man are natrully more gaurded now that he has given you that do you really want to hurt him just give up and walk away. I think alot of women just dont relise how much men actually hurt over these things, they just deal with it diffrently. So if it is possible try to sort through these issues just try ok.
2007-09-20 01:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun, there is no easy way to break up with a sensitve guy. Before I married my husband, we dated for about 4 years and broke up a couple times...he is a really sensitive guy, and I discovered no matter how softly, or gently I would do it, he would always get hurt so badly. I ended up marrying him because of how sensitive he was to me and my needs.
2007-09-20 04:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by jamilah_87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its very difficult to break up but there must be reason for that, its only ur feeling that he will not marry u, did u ever ask him, when u guys meets what he normally talks abt.
and also don't u love him, if u really loves him don't break up with him as true love is very hard to find, even though u break wid him but who know may be later u will regret that why i broke up with him,
first talk to him honestly and ask him watever in ur mind
after that then make decision.
god bless u
2007-09-20 04:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by broken heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very direct but dont say too much or go into details. Tell him, you like him but dont think you'll end up marrying and dont want to stand in the way of his progression in life. Remember keep it short and direct. Don't hem and haw.
2007-09-20 05:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by mobo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break-ups are never easy. There is going to be pain involved. You need to teel it to him gently. You need to tell him the best way you can that you want to be a wife to someone and since he doesn't want to be a husband, you need to move on. In time he will recover.
2007-09-20 04:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to do it i did and got him away from me asap then went and got drunk had a ball and cuddled up to someone i love all nite
2007-09-20 04:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- use the it's not you, it's me routine
- say that an ex lover contacted you
- say you have to leave town
- say that your pregnant (with someone else's kid)
2007-09-20 04:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes a SENSITIVE man then WHY R U BREAKIN UP WITH HIM????? ok sry
2007-09-20 04:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋