For me, I'd prefer being single coz i still want to explore the deeper meaning of life....
2007-09-19 20:05:42 · 18 answers · asked by hottstuff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Single life with a male for companionship
2007-09-19 20:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship. But , with a person who you really love and will have a future with. Just one single relationship.
You know, the deeper meaning of life can be still explored in your partner's company. Infact , they will help you to explore it. They would tell you the parts of you which were unknown to you. Or things about you which you never knew were beautiful. And , if still you are not able to explore the meaning of life, they would give you space to be alone and think about it on your own. I guess you'd have an option. Either way you'll be able to achieve the goal of exploring. And not just the meaning of life, but meaning of relationships , material things , maturity , many things.
Think about it. It's always best to share and discuss what you think about life to someone who loves you. Rather than draw conclusions on your own. Because there will be no one to correct you , right ?
2007-09-19 20:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by __Athena__ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say I enjoy been in a relationship because you have some one to share things with. I've have stumbled home many a night thinking my life would be great if I had some one to come home to. But at the the moment I'm single until I get my act to together again, my last girl friend starting doing drugs behind my back and she lost control, lost the plot so I left her.
Anyway there a both ups and down with have the single life or have an relationship. As single, I so much time to do things but no one to share it with. As a relationship don't have any time to do things but what I do do I can share with someone.
2007-09-19 20:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by DSV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not been single for more than 2 weeks in, like, 16 years. I find that i function much better in a relationship. I find that with love, i can understand the deeper meaning of life. If i was single, i'd be miserable.
2007-09-19 20:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single.
2007-09-19 20:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of have to agree with Davester. I mean I have been single all my life (due to family issues). And so part of me does want to find that great guy and have that possible wonderful chance at love and all that. But I have been single for so long too though I'm only 20 and yea I have all my life ahead of me. I already have issues and fears about losing my freedom when I even think about a serious relationship. Not only that because of my family issues I don't usually trust people as well. I have opened up alot more actually in last few months and such. But its still like I can't let someone into my heart so easily without fearing getting hurt, so I naturally push guys away.
As for being single it has its ups and downs. I mean sometimes its great to do whatever I want. But when I come home and stuff I just wish there was a guy or someone special there to just say welcome home to me other than my parents. I know they love me because well they have to as parents and all that. But I want someone I can really share my day with, maybe a nice bath and a few laughs and talk about real things that matter to me. With my parents I have to keep so secretive about how I really feel because they try and guilt me or say I'm stupid for thinking this or that. Its like a waste even trying to share myself with them. But yea other than that desire to have someone in my life. I do enjoy having the bed to myself. Staying up as late as I wish. Even eatting whatever I want without someone calling me fat for piggying out. So either way single life has its perks as does being in a relationship. I see both as pretty healthy if we are doing either one for the right reasons.
2007-09-19 20:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am personally mixed on this question. Being that I am 37 and still single, I would love to find the one. On the other hand, being single for so long I fear I wouldn't be able to handle a long-term relationship.
2007-09-19 20:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship comes with the responsibilities. If anyone who do not care about responsibilities, can’t manage the life without relationship. If person has no feel about responsibilities, I mean he/she use to take it as a action / activity can enjoy single life. Moreover it’s a feeling to love for loneliness.
2007-09-19 20:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being with someone that you love/care for is much better than coming home to no-one. I think the've even proved that being with someone will extend your life.. Being with someone lets you really get to know yourself and the interaction with others.... but the most important thing is to be happy. if you can't be in a relationship,,cheating,,flirting,,messy what ever your hang up don't keep the other person from being happy.
2007-09-19 20:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by milk-trucker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship. I need LOTS of affection and validation to function. The companionship he offers is a nice bonus. We do everything together. I hate traveling alone, but I never have to since he insists on always being by my side.. He also likes to cook, and I don't. We complement each other; he is my PERFECT counterpart.
2007-09-19 20:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋