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2007-09-19 19:48:55 · 25 answers · asked by Asker_765 3 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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Send them my way.

2007-09-19 19:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamstuff Entity 6 · 5 1

1. Seek Him. God knows all about what is coming and where you will be long before it ever happens. So if you are constantly seeking Him and your heart and mind are stayed on Him, then He can provide you with guidance that can lead you away from/out of temptation. Also as my bishop says, we have to stop living out of our flesh and live out of our spirits (that's how God communes with us). As we do that our viewpoints will change. Meaning instead of being tempted, you may instead feel compassion and be given words of life to speak to them. The bottom line is you have to be in constant communion with Him. That doesn't mean temptation won't come, but the more connected with Him we are, the more we will be able to withstand when the enemy brings it.
2. Avoid places where you know you will be tempted. This may not always be possible, but as much as you know how try to.
I hope that this provides some insight and doesn't sound like an accusation or indictment against you.

2007-09-19 20:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by HammJess 1 · 0 1

Temptation isn't a sin and could continuously come. The question is a thank you to no longer fall to the temptation. we are led off aim by employing the evil needs of our own hearts. in case you do no longer like it - it won't result you. in case you're severe approximately your integrity and purity - you will flee youthful lusts and not positioned your self in circumstances which could carry approximately transgression and sinning against God and your own ethical experience. There are greater temptations interior the international than innovations you should ever arise with. -- Ask the gay - it is not any longer in him to be tempted by employing a women no count number how stressful she tries to steer him off aim ;-)

2016-10-09 12:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Well, i have told my friends for years... you don't want to meet the woman you're going to marry in a bar! Everytime you fight she's gonna end up back in the bar! Lol? nah For real now... good question but same goes for the men too. Where can you find good and honorable friends anymore eh?
I would recommend that all Christian Americans go on strike and begin to start seeking God and putting Him first. No matter, with all of this globalism and communism heading our way, we'll end up having to run from the Gov. if we don't get taken out of here first. I am willing to die for the church, my family and Christ the Lord. I have always felt i'd be a martyr.
To answer your question precisely, you know what the word avoid means and it's in your question.

2007-09-19 19:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

I guess most men struggle with this problem. If you are married you may want to consider what you might be doing to your marriage. Picture your wife and what it would mean to her to have another woman be sought after more than she is. Picture your kids...their dad did what?? How could he? It could lead to divorce. Single or married-- it could lead to disease. It could lead to others having a poorer image of you. You may well buy her things, give her money, pay some of her bills, etc. She'd be taking you for your money. Another major way to combat this is to visualize your dad doing something like that when you were just a kid. How would you feel about your dad? What could his actions have done to you and your family at that time? If you do, or will have kids, what would you think if they did something like that? Would you and others be proud of them? If they were married, what could this do to their marriage & your grandkids? As I mentioned, you could come home with a disease. You could pass the dsisease on to others. The same would hold true for your kids if they did such a thing. Pray about it. WWJD?

2007-09-19 20:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If man avoided worldly women Adam and Eve would never have produced what they did.

2007-09-19 19:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Refuse to be put in a situation where you are able to give in to temptation. A little temptation isn't a bad thing - Jesus was tempted and proved himself by resisting - but keep yourself out of situations where the temptation might overcome you

2007-09-19 19:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Evieve 5 · 1 1

I hope this is not the same old "women are evil temptresses out to ruin good men" routine. Whatever "temptations" you're dealing with are yours, and your responsibility. Don't put yourself in situations that may tempt you.

2007-09-19 20:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by nova 1 · 2 0

Send the worldly women to me. I'll be glad to help.

2007-09-19 20:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Beavis Christ AM 6 · 1 0

like your awnser Gen.

ok. from a fellow christian guy who has, dose and for the remander of my life, have to fight that battle with you,

Look the other way, walk the other way, if your shoping go down another Isle until shes gone, dont get in an elevator alone with a women, or if theres a hot girl in an elevator even with others you might want to wait or take stairs.
Learn to look the other way as soon as you see something that MIGHT make you lust.
PRAY PRAY PRAY agenst it every day (hour, and any lower denomenation of time if needed to help)
GET ACCOUNTABLE
that ones huge.
Find someone who you look up to in your faith, for me its my best friend, Im about as strong in my faith as he is in is, and in areas hes stronger then me, same other way around. And we hold each other acountable and have to be verry open.
Have you been strugling (note not having, all guys get them its if you pass them off quickly thats the thing) with sexual thoughts/urges.
Have you acted on them? (masturbated)
and so and so forth from there and we help hold each other up, I mean I can call a few friends anytime and thed awnser and I would say dude, im goin thru it right now and I just want to do something right now that I know I shouldnt do, pray for me and talk to me I need to get this off of me.
and hed pray (or I would if he would call me) and then wed talk.
as wird as it may seem a friend called me and was like, dude, I just fell. and it was late and he didnt sound in pain like that (like hed call me if he triped anyway) so I knew what he ment. and wed pray and Id help counsel him and get his mind off it and then hed be ok and wed go back to sleep.

um, dotn watch movies that have alot of skin showing, dosent even have to be nudity, you know what the point is where your mind takes it ot the next level.

And dont beat yourself up beacuse your eyes are like they are and your brain thinks the way it dose.

God made it that way.
A man receves over half of sexual stimulis thru there eyes alone. A women on the other hand is emotionaly driven. This is why women think men are pigs beacuse we really do look at the serface and we, in that mode arnt like, ok lets get emotional conection...no. A man receves/fells the most intemasy right before - right after having sex. And to maried men thats how they show, receve love thru sex. with women its a process, I read a book that says sex starts in the kitchen.
A guy would be like pysical right of becuse the word. A women is like, aww he made me dinner, did the dishes, set me up a bath, put on the movie I like, got me flowers, all that jaz, to them romance is part of sex even talking before and cuddling.

Im not trying to get your mind going only to help you see that its just the way you are.

Jesus had to deal with it even.
but those Ideas at the top really help me. and so did these books.

Every Young Mans Battle (great regardless of age) forgot the author but if you google it you will find it.

Maximized Manhood and Sexual Intergrity (by Edwin. L. Cole)

2007-09-19 20:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by robertt223 4 · 0 1

These days it is tough. They all want to advertise their "wares" to the world like THEY had something to do with their appearances. "Oh look how hot I made myself."

And beauty pageants are the worst. Giving the creature the glory of the Creator.

Just hang with Christian women. There are plenty of attractive Christian women that conduct themselves modestly. I found one.

2007-09-19 19:54:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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