is it better for the guy to have stronger feelings for the girl, the girl have stronger feelings for the guy or equal?
and why?
2007-09-19 19:23:57 · 19 answers · asked by bballmyers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say that it should be equal. I mean how would you feel if you loved a chick so much and would do anything for her ;and she doesn't give a care about you at all and pretty much tells you she can be with anyone and takes you for granted. I mean that would really crush you and suck very much too. So I think that both people should feel the same. That way no one is getting used or hurt. Or for that matter being taken advantage of. So as long as both parties care for each other mutally then it is a good 50/50 relationship and probably more likely to last than a relationship where one person is giving everything they have and the other is taking all they can and not giving back anything at all. Hope this helps.
2007-09-19 20:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both should have strong feelings, But it's natural and normal for one to love more one day, the other the next etc.
There is no one normal way of being, some folks have fun relationships, some have Drama relationships.
Whatever they feel good having and they both like..Normal.
It's the same w/the bedroom ..some are mild some are wild, all normal. not good or normal when it causes too many problems if two are on totally different planes!
2007-09-20 02:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ITS USUALLY THE GIRL HAVING STRONGER FELLINGS.but that is just usually thats because woman g=can grow more attached earily in a relationship.I THINK IT SHOULD BE EQUAL.you should love you partner the same amount that they love you.but that never true .usually someone loves more in a relationship thats just the way it is.IF THAT WHERE NOT THE CASE THERE WOULD NOT BE THIS MANY DIVORCE IN THE WORLD which is going to 50%percent very soon of all marriges.
2007-09-20 02:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by kingml213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's always better for it to be equal. Either way the feelings will be different because guys and girls are just naturally different.
2007-09-20 02:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by The Comedian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy should have stronger feelings to show commitment to the woman because she needs to see that more and also they would be less likely to stray as men stray more.
2007-09-20 02:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Consulate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Equal definately. In a relationship you should always be equal partners. You don't want to always be the one wondering "why don't i love him as much as he loves me " or vice versa. If thats the case you may not be right for one another.
2007-09-20 02:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to be more on the equal side of things.
The thing about feelings is that they change or go up and down.It is important that the love is faithful, respectful etc.
2007-09-20 02:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is kind of silly, of course equal.
You want the relationship to be equal, so the love must be too.
2007-09-20 02:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my point of view, boy or girl should have equal feelings, mutual...so that they'll be happy 2gether...no More no Less..lolz...
2007-09-20 02:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by angel love-love is blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy's feelings are to strong then it could turn into abuse. If the girls are to strong then she may be crying more than she is laughing with him. So it should be mutual trust between them.
2007-09-20 02:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Talent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋