stressed!!!?

Question

my dad just recently died. My grandma recently died. My great-grandma recently died. I am fighting with my mom. My brother is never here. and 1 is in jail. and the two others we never talk to. My team is back-stabbing everyoe. My grades are failing what do i do??????????? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

just surrender yourself to the lord... because god is love you he gives you this trial because he knows that you can carry it ... nothing is impossible to the lord all is possible. You need a counselor , a psychiatrist, a friend you can lend on, this people give you a moral, and inspiring advice what will you do in your daily lives, how you can handle your situation . Prayer without ceasing, God is the answer.. I pray for you also to early recovery..All problem there is a solution. Always think positively!

Answer 2

You have so much on your plate! You've experienced alot of heartache and stress.

What you do is allow yourself time to grieve. And know that grieving takes all shapes and sizes and has its own time limit. For instance, you may experience anger as you grieve - this is normal - and will pass in time.

What you also do is address one problem in your life at a time. You are becoming overwhelmed by all that is going around you. It is impossible to alter everything in your life. So choose one thing, and work on that. When you have accomplished this, move onto the next.

You will have a positive reinforcement and a sense of accomplishment. This will elevate your mood and thinking. You will do better in school from this clear thinking. Hang in there. Tackle one thing at a time, you will heal, and life will improve.

Answer 3

See stress treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris on page 42.

For grief related depression, go to http://www.mind.org.uk/ and type "grief in the taskbar, and enter. Call: (U.S.A.) 1800 445 4808, or Hospice (phone book). Email [e-mail] Chatrooms and forums: http://www.chatmag.com/topics/health/gri... and http://talkingminds.15.forumer.com... and http://messageboards.ivillage.com... Other websites: http://www.griefnet.org/ and http://www.helpguide.org and http://www.mental-health-abc.com/... and http://www.boblivingstone.com?q=node30... Understand that there are often several stages of grief. See www.amazon.com for books on the various stages. After a while, consider making a photoalbum/scrapbook and/or a shrine, in remembrance, and set aside one day per month on which to reflect. Many religious organisations offer counselling, or you may feel more comfortable with a therapist, to express your thoughts, and feelings. Journalling may help in this. If the depression continues, visit your doctor, and see depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net. (.net.nz/~shaneris) in section 2. Don't worry about your school grades just now; the important thing to do is to get over this bad patch in your life, and then things will right themselves.

Answer 4

I am so sorry for your situation. You are obviously under a lot of stress. You might find help from an ecclesiastical leader or a counselor, like a school counselor or a psychologist. I hope you find health and happiness.

Answer 5

these are tests that life puts you through. some fall out, some dont... i hope ur from the ones who make it through. A chaotic life is sometimes what one needs to be motivated to make change. sorry i know this answer is very general but i cant really say nymore...and sorry bout your loss.

Answer 6

hullo
first my condolences to your loss, i think you are suffering from grief reaction which a reaction to a loss, specially death.
try to pull your self together, if there is family strife, then group therapy or family therapy will help.

Dr solo