okay so there is this girl, she is a MAJOR flirter with guys..she can get guys to like her within like 5 minutes. shes so different from everyone else i know. shes just got her own peronality style (obessed with being different)..& wont give anyone her secret
with people that talk a lot in class shed be like "omg you're so cute!" or like "omg i love you"
so how does she do it? if you dont know, then how do you flirt really well? and how do you know when you should stop?
2007-09-19 19:05:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are only 14 and just started high school. shes sorta hard actually. like she gets guys to ask her out but she doesnt usually say yes. also everyone enjoys hanging out with her, like even me. shes really fun. i just dont get how she does it
2007-09-19 19:16:46 · update #1
I think the key to being able to flirt well is to basically like yourself and like other people. You don't really take yourself or the people you flirt with all that seriously, but you are prepared to move a little further if the bait is taken.
People who are insecure with themselves or others generally don't flirt all that well.
I think flirting is a rather fun thing to do, and I do occasionally engage in it, but I am also married, faithful and not planning to change anything. I would never cheat on my wife.
Flirting done well makes both people feel good. You have a little innocent fun and the other person gets a little flattery.
On the other hand, if you are free, flirting can lead to bigger and better things, and should be an important part of a good healthy courtship.
The girl you mention is popular not because of what she says, but because she is obviously comfortable with herself and seems to genuinely like other people.
You should stop if the other person resents it or obviously rejects you. Flirting should never be harassment.
2007-09-19 19:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called confidence, you're just unafraid to say things lie "Omg you're cute."
Although, to be honest, she doesn't sound like a good flirt to me, she sounds like an easy girl. I seriously doubt she's really getting guys to like her in five minutes, they probably assume she's going to sleep with them. I doubt you really want to be like that. I think you could do a lot better by just having confidence and being yourself :)
2007-09-20 02:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by lilykdesign 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself make everything fun. As Janis Joplin says "Live today like its the last minute of your life"
2007-09-20 02:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by cinbadd65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋