Ok she is in AIT and she is telling me that she cant take it anymore and she wants to quit because she cant "see" me. I can tell she is loosing her mind because she is a very emotional person but lately she has been just insane towards me. If anyone has is in 42 alpha or human resources in the Army then do u know if civilians can come on post at any time to pick up a soldier? If i can is it worth moving down there to put her mind at ease?
2007-09-19 16:12:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
42A school is incredibly short. There's no point in moving there. Find out where her first duty station is and see if you can move there. If you're going to get married anyway, look into doing that, then you will be eligible for housing, and she will get BAH in the meantime.
2007-09-19 16:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Justin Miller 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tou can go there weekends, but Moving there is a complete waste. Once she's through with AIT, who knows where she would be transferred to, and you'd have to move---again===provided it is to a place you could move to.
he's probably going through what everybody else went through== being away from friends and family, but unfortunately she should have known this was going to happen.
The military is not like a civilian job. If you don't like it, that's too bad. You don't just up and quit without some extremely serious consequences.
I sincerely hope she gets over it and remembers why she joined up in the first place.
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2007-09-19 23:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by TedEx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quitting is not an option in the military. Hopefully she has only told you about quitting. Please tell her not to say that, she can get into trouble.
Military life is hard in the beginning. She must make the best of the situation or it's just going to get worse.
All I can say is write, call , and email all you can to keep the bond. Maybe go for a weekend but don't move unless she is going to be stationed there. However, its your choice.
2007-09-19 23:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No do not move down there. You can only hope that the army will get rid of her little girl problem and send her crybaby butt home so she don't pollute the army with that garbage. The army calls it "physiological disorder" tell her that so she can go the hell home.
2007-09-19 23:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by robert l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is in school, but still has drill sergeants to answer to and has to continue to live in her barracks.
She needs to tough this out. See her on weekends, time permitting, or over the internet with a camera, if possible, using Skype or some other software.
2007-09-19 23:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a good guy if you will move down there. yes you can visit her somtimes. send her videos of you and let her know it will be hard but you will be there for her, you will never cheat or leave, let her know you love her. yes you will be able to see her but like a regular job, she has to stay at work untill she gets off. then you can see her. once you are married, you can apply to live on base with her.
2007-09-20 02:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Para-diddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support her. Encourage her to follow through on the commitments she's made and be patient until she gets assigned to a permament duty station to move.
It's a short school.
2007-09-19 23:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by John T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋