How Stupid Could I Be?

Question

ok so the guy i really like (and im pretty sure he likes me too) was sitting in my seat on the bus this morning.. (hes been giving me signs that he likes me.. im sue this was one) and he usually sits in the seat across from mine with his bag on the seat with him.. but today when i got on he was in my seat with his bag under the seat by his feet.. all my friends say he wanted me to sit with him.. but i didnt... grr am i really that lame as to not sit with him.>??? waht do i do now i dont want him to think i dont like him czu i do like him

Answer 1

Oh...you need a do over! That was not a hint, that was an invitation with big red letters. I think you'd better try to manuever him back over to your side of the bus tomorrow. If he's already seated when you get on ask if the seat beside him is taken and then TAKE IT!

Answer 2

Ahh don't you hate that, when your in the moment & you know what you want to do, but your not sure & it just goes by too fast & what you want to do doesnt end up happening. Don't sweat it, there will be plenty more opportunities just make sure you jump at them next time. Tomorrow on the bus when you get on, if he's sitting the same way he did today then sit next to him and make small talk (just be confident and yourself, he'll like you for that). If he's sitting on the seat across from you with his bag on the seat then ask him if you can sit there & apologize for not sitting with him yesterday, just say you were confused or something. If you make him happy by sitting next to him & talking to him the next day he will forget all about the day before when you didn't. Good luck, let me know how it goes.

Answer 3

O.K., so you let fear take control of you today. It's over, it's done and there is nothing you can do about it now, so stop fretting over it. But tomorrow, no matter if he's in your seat or not, you're going to approach him and straight out ask, "hey, do you mind if I sit with you?" You're also going to be confident and have a big smile on your face when you do it.

Now get on that bus and go for it girl!

Answer 4

it was pretty obvious he wanted you to sit with him, tomorrow if he is doing the same thing sit with him, if not when you get on the bus just lift his bag up and sit there and look over at him and give him a sweet smile, he will get the hint and then start a conversation about anything.

Answer 5

when you get on the bus the next day, if he's sitting in his normal seat with his bag on the chair, ask him if you can sit with him. start making your move, that's really all i can say.

Answer 6

Tomorrow on the bus sit with him!! Come on..he probably just wanted you to talk to him...and now his confidence is gonna be low!! Put a smile on your pretty face and sit with him. It'll make it up to him. Btw, good luck!!

Answer 7

If he does it again tomm, sit with him, and if he sits in the seat where he usually does, ask him to sit there. Dont be shy and scared, it will be ok.

Answer 8

I know how you feel.
Just remember you can sit with him the next time. The more he waits for you "sit" with him or hope you "sit" with him, the more he would like you.

Answer 9

You can't travel to the past, so just tell him you like him. Guys don't like girls who just beat around the bush! Apologize for not sitting with him. Tell him you were nervous or something. The truth actually works, sometimes! >_<

Good luck,
MK

Answer 10

OK..easy one! try to get on the bus before him see if he sits next to you..if not just smile and say hi..that is nice and always works...let him make the next move...good luck!!