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I don't get it...I'm a very modest girl. But lately, guys have been asking me to flash them...saying they think I have nice boobs and that my cleavage is nice. Can someone solve the obsession for me??

2007-09-19 10:58:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Its natural for guys to have that "obsession". Its like asking a girl why she loves shoes. Its in a guys second nature to be horney and want to see that. It happens to me at my school. Just be persistant and say no. Don't give in. They will move on and leave you alone after a little while. It might still pop up again every once and a while but just say no. those are yours, dont let just anyone see them!

2007-09-19 11:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by *Ashlyn <3 2 · 0 0

It's a learned trait.

As a child (middle school age), I could never get on the same page with my guy buddies when they were all about "the boobs". I didn't think it was that big of a deal, they're the same things guys have just bigger...who cares?

For me it was that area a bit further down south. That's where curiosity led my mind. But that was never an option. Guys only talked about boobs, it was 'perverted' to talk about anything else.

Then the girls started flaunting their boobs and it became clear to me that boobs are what I should be focusing on if I wanted to fit in with the guys and be able to tell an attractive girl from an unattractive one.

Now i'm just like the rest of them, I appreciate a perfect pair. I said all that to say this: SOCIETY DICTATES WHAT IS ATTRACTIVE AND WHAT ISN'T.

It's the same for girls' impression of guys. It used to be the "6 pack". I don't know what ya'll look for anymore, but it's something equally as stupid as boobs and six packs.

2007-09-19 13:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 0 0

Well, we don't have any, so that makes them doubly appealing -- if you'll pardon the pun! Also, we're visual creatures. We're just wired that way. We like to look, and you must admit that they are nice to look at! Also, you may have noticed that we're kind of obsessed with our own johnsons. I guess we just fixate on certain things.

As Steve Martin said to Sarah Jessica Parker in "L.A. Story," "I don't know how women ever get anything done. If I were a woman, I'd just stay home and play with my breasts all day."

By the way, it's not just guys that are obsessed with them. Ask one of your flat friends if she wishes she had bigger ones. You probably take them for granted because you have a nice pair, but think back to before you developed and there were other girls at your school with bigger ones. You noticed them, didn't you?

Lastly, do you oblige the guys who ask you to flash them? Mmmm, I'm getting a visual . . .

2007-09-19 11:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 1 1

its like wen u see a super bum, that kinda feeling, its unlike we've a call its an developed and complex under pressure out reaction, the medical reason is super boobs are an illustration of stable fertility, the deepest reason is they're in user-friendly terms a shape that provokes a grew to become on reaction aka they're warm.

2016-10-19 03:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Its called biology. The ones with the bigger or better boobs are better candidates for having children and that is the underlying drive behind sex. You can't fight biology.

2007-09-19 11:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 1 1

because we like boobs, im more of an *** man but i loooove boobys too. it hink personaly ur just tryna boast about ur boobs and the attention u get from guys.

2007-09-19 11:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

they r boys whiich means they r purverts. it happens in my school 2. just say no and if it gets uncormfortable tell u or teacher or ur mom.

2007-09-19 11:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by jenny m 3 · 0 1

That's like asking how God came to be. No one knows.

2007-09-19 11:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by All That Jazz 3 · 2 1

it's because society has made them taboo, other places don't have this same obsession.

2007-09-19 11:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0 0

Guys like em--we cant help it.

2007-09-19 11:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Nemo the geek 7 · 1 0

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