okay, my boyfriend and i go to the same school, we roam the same hallways, and even bump into eachother, but we have been going a whole MONTH without even eyecontact!!!!! i don't know what's up and i can't get the nerve to talk to him and ask what's up so i wrote him a note, and he wouldn't take it! all of my friends have been asking if he is still going out with me and he sez i don't know. im so devistated, a minth without eye contact is long enough, any advice? my friends say dump him but i love hiom and what if it is all just a misunderstanding?
2007-09-19 09:26:31 · 28 answers · asked by Whitney :P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That defiantly doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. He is acting like he doesn't want to be seen with you.
2007-09-19 09:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hay girl,Im 28 and I'm dilling with the same stuff your are but me and my boyfriend are both 28 years old! Men are hard to under stand most of the time! When my boyfriend pulls this stuff on me I sit donw @ home and put all my heart and soul in to my notes and let him know just how much I love him!then I drop the note off at his house when I know hes home,I knok on the door leave the note where he can see it and leave!Give him time to read the note,and think about what he could lose!Then in two days if he still want talk to you or look at you ,you"ll know its over! I wish you the best of luck with him!for me its like a weeklly thing one min. hes fine the next he wont talk to me,or take my calls and I'm telling girl to girl if you want to sit around and cry all the time and be depreessed all the time stay with him ,but if not suck it up move on to bigger and better things girl!! best of luck to ...Toshot!!
2007-09-19 09:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Toshort 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all don't get distressed what i would do not matter how hard it is, is to ignore him don't make any attempts to speak to him don't talk to him on msngr or text him or call him. If he really wants you back he will knock down every hurdle and find his way to your locker to see you. Make it a point of duty to enjoy your life as much as you can it will do two things :
1. piss him off and make him wonder what is making life so good for you and
2. give you a chance to move on with your life
you are too great to let mean guys walk all over you
2007-09-19 09:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Yana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear why don"t you enjoy being young and single ? For now concentrate on making good grades and learning all you can learn. You need to choose a career now and become focused on that ! When school is over you want to be able to compete for a job in the real world !
2007-09-19 09:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him first dont just let him make his mind up if there has been not even eye contact then why you even bothering u need to get some self conferdence girl go up to him tell him he is dumped instead of the other way around before he does it to you and stop folowing your mates you know what you sound like my daughter and i give her the same advice she is now dating a lad and he is loverly with her even text's her just to say goodnight wouldnt you rather have someone like that then someone that cannot even be bothered to give you the time of day good luck hunni believe me you better then him as he sounds like a shallow person
2007-09-19 09:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Richard G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't like my answer...so feel free not to read on...
I think your bf is ignoring you, so you will take a hint and just call it over. He wants your relationship [whatever is left of it] to be over but just can't tell you that to your face. Although I think if he does feel that way, then he be a MAN and step up to the plate and tell you how he feels rather than acting this way. He would not responded 'i don't know' when asked if you guys are together. A guy like that is not worth it...you deserve better...so be a WOMAN and walk up to him, look him in the eye, and you tell him "I CAN'T DEAL WITH THIS...IT'S OVER!" Then turn around...and walk away..and DO NOT look back!
Good luck...
2007-09-19 09:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by cHarizMaTic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused? How can you love him if you guys rarely speak? I'm honestly trying to understand you and your situation.
Whatever the case may be, you should break up with him. Clearly there are other things on his mind. He may be going through personal things at home or maybe even with himself.
I think you should break up with him, and see how things go from there. It also seems like he might just be playing you. He wants to see what you will do and how far you will go.
2007-09-19 09:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how did that happen? He just avoided you or something?
Walk up to him directly in the hallway or something, or call him... but however you do it, talk to him. Demand to know why he hasn't even looked at you for an entire month. Ask him what's up - is he still dating you? Does he still like you?
It sounds to me like it's not even really a relationship anymore. :/ But you have to figure it out with him.
Good luck! Feel free to email me and let me know what happens with this.
2007-09-19 09:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by ashleymoore7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has this much trouble communicating with you over some "misunderstanding" then you'll have some serious problems when you have real issues that need to be discussed. If you care about yourself, don't love someone who causes you and will probably continue to cause you so much trouble. Good luck!
2007-09-19 09:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by s227701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fallow what your friend will say or think.. be your own leader..get the nerve now and you will see things better in the long run..but as for your friends..if they tell you to jump off a bridge would you..wake up.
2007-09-19 09:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pull him aside and say "Look, we need to talk. I want to talk about our relationship. Is something wrong? If there is I dying to work it out because I still love you..." You can say something like that. If you still love him you'll make the effort to talk it out because it's possible that this relationship can end for the lamest reason.
Wish you the best! =]
Take care,
John P.
2007-09-19 09:31:03 · answer #11 · answered by John P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋