I'm 17 he is 47 with 4 children and he wont bring it out in the open
2007-09-19 09:23:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy deserves to be LOCKED UP! Seriously. How could you do this? There is NOTHING you two have in common but your mom. Do you have any idea how much that will hurt her when she finds out?
Girl, I am not one to judge, but this is illegal and just plain wrong. NOTHING positive can come from this. Move on and find someone your OWN age to be with, and do it BEFORE mom finds out. You don't want this out in the open for all the world to know you are acting like a tramp... End it and forget it EVER happened.
2007-09-19 09:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Rav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it may seem sinfully wonderful to do, don't do it!
All sorts of problems will arise if you do it.
1) You could get hurt (in more ways than one).
2) The fantasy is better then the act (disappointments come with dealing with an older man especially 30 years your senior)
3) Is it worth damaging your relationship with your mum and shaming the family for life?
4) and is it worth your effort to get emotionally invovled with an older man with children?
Good luck getting a grip on reality.
2007-09-19 09:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by The truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest... the age gap doesn't squick me. It's fine, you can't help who you love, and maybe you two have a lot in common. It happens, somebody who is very mature at a younger age can go to a much older man. But, if he doesn't seem to want to tell anybody, I'm not sure. If he wants to and won't because he's afraid of being shunned by society, it's kinda acceptable, but if he won't because he's ashamed of being with someone so young, then that is wrong. If you are really in love with him, talk to him about it all, and follow what your heart says, not what others say.
2007-09-23 05:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's absolutely illegal! You are going to regret this when you're older, and he should be in jail, the pervert. Even if you were 18 (and thus, legal), that is just too much of an age gap.
I'm 34 and having issues over dating a man 15 years older than me! I can't imagine how you could possibly feel good about your scenario. And imagine how your mom would feel! This is all wrong, wrong, wrong, and it's really not even your fault. This guy is slime. He knows this is wrong. Please take my advice and tell someone (preferably the police).
2007-09-19 09:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a teen sleep and have sex with 47 year old man. Of course he won't bring it to open because your are minor and it will be jail time for him. He is taking advantage of young p--- and he loves it. Get your priority together before its too late.
2007-09-19 09:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really worried about this.. It's not healthy at all... And i definatly see a huge problem with this. When did it start PLEASE dont say its been going on for a long time... I see a lot of cases where mom's bf or step father goes after the daughter and pressures them into having sex and then makes them feel like its there fault... I dont think this relationship would be advisable to go any further...
2007-09-19 09:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lenababi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't really ask a question - so I won't really provide an answer.
Nobody - that's right - NOBODY here said - "Oh - good for you! Hope it works out!" I guess you will keep asking about this until you start to get approval. Sadly - I don't think it's going to happen.
Have you sought out counseling yet? You're not pregnant are you? I know you were concerned about it awhile back.
2007-09-19 11:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to bring that out in the open anyway? Do you not give a d*m* about your mothers feelings at all? You both have issues!
2007-09-19 09:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. I'm 17 and I love older guys too. That is cool. BUT have You ever heard of that saying that says "for every new person you sleep with, you sleep with everyone THEY'VE slept with too"??? Well congratulations because you basically have just slept with your mom. I really dont think you should do this. It will hurt your mom and make her wonder what she did to have you betray her like this. Because Im sorry but thats what you did.
2007-09-19 09:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"What approximately you?" As i've got been telling you - for a very long term now. you will would desire to get out of this dating. you will desire to have a "popular" dating - and now no longer be hidden from his kin. you would be able to desire to have your very own kin. You should be with a guy or woman who's PROUD to be with you. you're dropping it sluggish and your existence with this person. would desire to you relatively have been comfortable with him - which you in basic terms does not post on top right here with those questions each and every of the time. you're actually not pregnant - are you?
2016-12-26 18:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by batalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋