My crush has a girlfriend.. well he rejected me so I guess this is probably why. What can I do to get over this? I do not want to attack their loving relationship? She is sooo much prettier than me..=/
2007-09-19 09:18:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, uh, forget about him. It sounds easier than it actually is, but the sooner you forget him the better.
2007-09-19 09:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Billy Bob Barker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be so hard on yourself. Who says you're not pretty too? Don't think that you're not pretty because there are a lot of different aspects that make you pretty.
I know, it sucks when a crush has a boyfriend/girlfriend. Try not to let it get you down. There are other guys around that you may like just as much, if not more, and not know it yet.
Attacking their relationship is not a good idea. It wouldn't serve much purpose, as you would be doing more harm than good. Who knows? Their relationship may run it's course on it's own.
2007-09-19 16:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by obey_propaganda06 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't spend anymore time worrying about this crush. There will be tons more, and don't compare yourself to his gf, thats not fair. Crushes are crushes because most of the time you don't have the nerve to talk to them, and apparently you have, you found out he has a gf, and life goes on. I've been there, I had a "friend" try and set me up with my crush, she was very cruel, she had me going for a whole semester. And yeah, he had a gf, long story short, after high school, he married her. Unfortunately for her, he also cheated on her, with girls who were still in high school (at that time he was 30, the girl was my 15 yr old neighbor, he told her he was 20). My best friend works with her (his wife) and the cheating still hasn't stopped, I use to be so jealous of her, for so long, now I feel sorry for her.
2007-09-19 16:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sun R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, stop attacking yourself, you are pretty, I can't tell you how many times I got "crushed" and wondered what I did or what I looked like to make him break up with me.
It is just that people are different, they have different needs, and wants, and desires, that does not make you any less desirable. Or any less of a person.
Just hold your head up high, and get out with your girlfriends and the next cute guy you see, just say "hi", and you will not believe what an amazing ice breaker the word "hi" is!!
2007-09-19 16:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that but you will find someone sooner than you think. You sound young so there is no rush. Attacking their loving relationship sounds like you want to join some of us old farts who are on here attacking each other because of the same s*** you just went through..Don't bother yourself honey you are young enjoy your life and what it has to offer, and take that as a "learning experience"
2007-09-19 16:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this has happened to me 4 times. What u need to do is just shut up. and move on k! Now i have a girlfriend who is absolutly perfect for me. The right guy will come
2007-09-19 16:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be prettier then you but how is her personality? mean and cruel? ive had alot of time to think about it and ive always chosen the nicer girl appearence only matters when you think it matters if you are the nicer of the 2 with the better personality that he can have fun and laugh with he will always choose you.
2007-09-19 16:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for not wanting to ruin things for him.
Just be friends...NOTHING MORE, until he may or may not become single.
BTW...she might not be prettier than you, as looks are based on opinions. However, you do have a graceful attitude and that will bring you far.
2007-09-19 16:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a crush.
Live it out, and I promise the feelings will diminish once you find another guy. It happens all the time.
Not to mention, it will be a tad harder, b/c there's the human reaction of wanting what you can't have.
Wait it out ... you'll be alright. :)
2007-09-19 16:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by krisi10_21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry there atr at least ten more single guys out there. Don't get so hung up on one because then you settle.
Go find the perfect guy, they are out there.
To find him you may need to date a bunch of people and that does not mean sleep with all of them. (just to be clear)
2007-09-19 16:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over him and start a crush on someone else. It's not too hard and he's more than likely not the man of your dreams.
2007-09-19 16:22:03 · answer #11 · answered by Christopher B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋