plz help, My "friend"??

Question

I have a internet girl friend and we are happy, But at the current time i am kicked off the internet at home( i'm at school ) So i can't talk to her for a while( the e-mail is blocked at school ), But i also have a friend that i am starting to like this other girl, and i don't know what to do( i get really nervous )( i am 14 and i have never hade a real girl friend) So what should i do??

Answer 1

ask the girl you like out go ahead i don't mind

Answer 2

My first ~10 girlfriends were internet girls, I started dating online when I was about 15, I was shy and scared to talk to girls in person I continued to date girls online till I was 18, and now I can talk to any girl I want to, I have an infinte amount of confidence as i've talked to so many girls online I already feel like I know what they are going to say and I have the answer, like studying for a test. So I can't say don't date girls online because it has helped me greatly with my confidence and I don't think that i'd be who I am today if I hadn't, but at the same time you have to evaluate the likelihood of your internet relationship progressing you're 14, if she is 13-15 or even 16 the chances of you two meeting are verry slim, as neither of you can drive. That factor is cut even shorter if she lives in another state, time-zone, or country than you. And it's further cut in that if she is around 13 or 14 she has yet to fully progress and once she does she is going to attract other male company and her loyalty to you may diminish.

So here is my advice on your choices.

If you stay with your internet girlfriend: Go to your local library to get online, a friends house, use your cell as a modem and connect via that if you have your own computer but no internet, use a friends cell and text her email address, always keep in touch, with internet dating if there is no communication there is no relationship.

If you go with the girl in real life: Be courteous enough to inform your net g.f that you want to end the relationship. Don't just not talk to her anymore, she may be far away but she is still a human and still deserves to be treated as such. After which just enjoy your time with your new gf.

But I must warn you that with a "real" girlfriend you are obligated to do a lot more than with a net girlfriend, because you are right next to each other, you have no reason to not do a lot of the stuff you don't normally do with your net girlfriend.

I hope i've helped.

p.s - Never let anyone tell you what to do, take everything people say as advice and decide for yourself the best course of action.

Answer 3

Go with the live girl. An internet relationship can work but being only 14, you can't ever really meet her. Yeah maybe you can go visit on spring break or whatever but that's it. If you were an adult and you could discuss moving closer to each other I'd say go for it. At 14, you need the real girl that goes to your school or at least lives near by.

Answer 4

relax. stay cool. (i know, your nervous). it is natural to be. it is okay. just be yourself and be 100% you. if she picks up that you are a great guy things could lead to more. there is a first time for everything. to begin you have to start somewhere.... so start being the person who seeks what you want deep down inside. whatever you feel go for it. even if you think its ackward or silly and your not sure. you've got to do things to get your umpf up. the esteem has to rise. by doing this all it takes is being you, no one else just you. people will appreciate you for you, no gimmicks just you. go with the girl that you feel most comfortable with. thats an easier thing and situations to deal with. the more comfortable you feel with a person, the more happier the both of you can be. dont think of it as never having, but think of it as a new start and a new beginning to learn about each other and do fun things go to fun places and be happy.
good luck to you. just be yourself, things will come across much better for you. dont worry, your not perfect, just human.

Answer 5

Hi! You are only 14 years of age you have a long time before you find that right one. I think you should just date. Also is she around the same age as you, be very careful on those internet sites.

Answer 6

Just relax.
Do you even know who the "Internet girl" really is? Its possible it could be someone bad, so personally I wouldn't get involved in that. Just talk to the "real" girl and get to know her. Eventually it will all work out somehow.

I understand your being nervous, Its natural. Just be yourself and if she can't see the real you, then she isn't worth it.

Just be careful with either decision and don't do anything you think you'll majorly regret later.

Answer 7

Talk to this other girl and get to know her. If it does progress to something more then tell your Internet gf. The internet gf may even become your best friend and probably start helping you out.

Answer 8

You need to get out and socialize. It isn't exactly healthy to have a relationship at a young age via the internet. Especially as a minor.

I'm sure your BF will understand.

Answer 9

Get off the Internet and start meeting some flesh and blood girls. Then you will really have a reason to be confused.

Answer 10

sounds great that youre happy with someone you have never met, dont you think? its good that you can make online friends/relationships. but why waste your time on that? are you going to fly to her state and meet her or is she coming to see you? if thats the case, i fully support you even though you are a bit young to be flying cross country for a girl...
but on the other hand, why not be happy with someone you can physically see and do things with, like go to the park or the mall or sit at home and chill?
anyways, in my opinion, why not go to a friends house, email her saying that you would love to stay friends, but commitment to someone you (proabably) wont ever meet, isnt going to work. good luck!!

Answer 11

Tell ur Gf (If u like the other girl more than her) that since its hard to have all these girls around at school and never be able to come face to face with you! (or something like that)