Im dating this guy and we hardly every hangout, he never calls me, doesn't even sit with me at luch letalone even say "hi" (im in high school) I asked him the other day if he wanted to hangout and he said "i dunno" and then to see what he would say I told him we could have sex and he was like "well i guess we could hangout." i don't know what to do...I mean i really like this guy A LOT.....help meeee!!!!!
2007-09-19 06:07:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop having sex. Save it for your future husband. Your relationship should be based on friendship first. This kind of relationship is the most rewarding and lasts longer. Do yourself a favor, love yourself first, and set guidelines on how you would like to be treated, hold yourself to those same guidelines, and treat others this way. Good Luck.
2007-09-19 06:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by my4boysrock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why continue to try to get a relationship to go on when it is doomed. It is better to not have a boy friend if it isnt working. At least if a guy comes along he wont pass you by because you have one. Loving some one does not qualify us for anything. It stinks but it is a fact. Since you are in high school you have not lived as long as I (58) and I can tell you from experience that during your life you will be disappointed many times and when you get to the end of your self one day then you will understand what being human is. You can save your self a lot of heart ach by believing in your self and your great worth and you dont have to barter with your body. Good Luck
2007-09-19 06:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI!
I believe it when you say you like this guy alot! But I think he likes you alot for a different reason! If you want to know how much he cares for you, stop suggesting he can come over and have sex with you! You are both young and to confused with your emotions right now. When you say love, it means different things then what it will mean to you later on in life! And sometimes, when us guys say we LOVE YOU! It really means WE WANT TO **** YOU! I know that sounds cruel, but I think it is one of the biggest differences between a man and woman. They want romance and cuddling, and at your age especially, guys are not ready for that level of maturity! I don't think its because they do not want to. I just do not think they are capable of doing it! Take your time and step back and look at this relationship honestly.. From what you have stated, do you think he REALLY IS IN LOVE?
Good luck to you!
2007-09-19 06:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes not thr right guy for you.
if he doesnt wanna see you just to hangout and be there for company then hes not worth it.
im in high school too. im a virgin but thats nothing big i guess. and well im a 10th grader. im guessing your like 11th or 12 so yeah. im probably younger than you. but this guy seriously isnt right for you.
hes a player and only wants sex so he's using you!
2007-09-19 06:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Brianna g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him what hes in the relationship for, and if you feel his answer would be not the truth to your face you could always go and send him a message anonymously that what my friend did, she used http://hikkup.com and asked her bf why he wanted to be in a relationship with her and it helped them work things out, I wish you the best of luck and you can always e-mail me if you need help. Good Luck!
2007-09-19 06:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by stacyc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for sex... how can you still like him after that? You might as well just be a vagina with legs to him. Don't let him take and not give. Boyfriends have dues that need be paid! Hanging out is one of them, and they should WANT to!
2007-09-19 06:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Temari 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have to think about your feelings first. Don't allow yourself to get low self esteem over this because that's what's gonna happen. I know you like him but you see yourself that he's using you for sex. Don't give him another piece of you. you are special and you need to give yourself to someone special not him.
2007-09-19 06:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are being used for sex..you need to get out of that relationship....he shouldnt just want to hang out with you just to have sex with you...he should treat you like you should be treated...Feel free to email me sometime if you want to talk or some more advice..Hope this helps.......Good Luck
2007-09-19 06:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by durtyboyz2005 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be surprised if he has a girlfriend
He wants to get laid when done continue on with his life..
Get a life, make some friends, go out. and dump him then find someone who cares for you for you
2007-09-19 06:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by MrsGill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. he's just using you. you're still young. find somebody else. you might just end in a difficult situation. study should be a priority.
2007-09-19 06:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by amira 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋