i have a fear of rejection. everytime someone just slightly backs away from me . . i totally retreat and i just want to go crazy and it feels like my world is crashing down.
i hate myself for this what can i do?
thanks
2007-09-19 05:23:36 · 8 answers · asked by lucyinthesky5473 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Not everyone will reject you sweetie but some people will thats all you need to know. We are not loved or liked by everyone but we are loved and liked by some and can be loved and liked by many. It has a lot to do with your personality if you show people that you are easy going, down to earth, fun loving ect. while you still stand up for what you belive in then you should get along with people very well and that fear of rejection will be a thing of the past trust me. Of course there will be the people who are just envious and you will not be accepted by them but focus on the brighter side of life and you'll do just fine.
2007-09-19 05:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by VANILLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stand up and feel your self as the divine being that you are and come to the realization that you can achieve anything that you desire. All in all you are a Good person and your self esteem should rise up to a state of confident and self worth
2007-09-19 05:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that too but i try to think that some may really like me and i'm acting like crazy and may make them feel bad, i am a little shy when someone is new but i feel ok with the ones that i know
2007-09-20 06:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by dya_na 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection, in one form or another, happens to us all from time to time......it NEVER killed anyone. You over react to a common occurence, again, you need professional help.
2007-09-19 05:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not fear to rejection is normal to reject , when something inside you dont accept the food your brain tell you to reject, is normal maybe because you dont usually used to reject. Bye
2007-09-19 05:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to break up with boyfriends when I thought they were going to break up with me....before they could do it to me. There's a couple I really regret breaking up with...one is a congressman now. So..be careful who you run from.
2007-09-19 05:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Deenie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore rejection.
Think of acceptance.
Smile.
2007-09-19 05:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by reinventingtheheartbeat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate yourself more.
2007-09-19 05:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by nienufroo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋