2007-09-19 04:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by madashell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I own may own house and he is stilling paying for his. But he refusses to live in my house so now because i am not there the lights have been shut off. and people are stealling stuff from my home? I am disabled. I am beginning to feel used am i wrong?
2007-09-19 04:50:51 · update #1
You can have trust when trust is earned. What you will have if you continue to live with this man the belief that you are as dumb and incompetant as he tells you you are.
Trust can only be earned by being treated with dignity and respect.
Move back home and keep your property safe. Do Not give into a man just for the sake of companionship. The mere fact that you are questioning his nissues means that you should not be involved.
2007-09-19 04:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go home.....
if the man treats you as if you are stupid, and doesn't trust you he has ISSUES.. and big ones.
isn't it nicer to know you have your own home and can do what you want? he isn't helping you by treating you like a doormat.
take care of yourself, hon. i am disabled, also and had a boyfriend who was much the same... he is an EX boyfriend now, for those reasons...
why be unhappy? hugs
2007-09-19 05:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not making his house payments. You are allowing your house to be robbed. Use your brain. Maybe he doesn't trust you cause he isn't trustworthy, so he doesn't believe anybody can be trusted. I'd move back into my paid for home and start worrying about myself. Then he might develop some respect for you.
2007-09-19 05:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in your own house and have him come to you. When thinsg shake out, you are left with your stuff, andhe is with his.
How would things be stolen from yoru house? Do you leave it open?
2007-09-19 05:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by akipooh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe b/c he's ignorant and have low self esteem with insecurities of his own.
Use reverse psychology and keep it up until he backs down or lose this guy.
2007-09-19 04:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by simee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have trust in that situation, period...and this will make for a pretty miserable relationship if something doesn't change.
2007-09-19 04:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋