I have stretch marks on my legs,bottom and lower back,they look so ugly and i'm afraid to wear skirts because of it. I also worry about my bf feeling my stretch marks when he touches me,they are noticable and can be felt easily. I dont want advice on what to use because i know all that,my question is has your bf seen your stretch marks and what is their reaction to it?do you wear clothes that show your stretch marks?
2007-09-19 04:16:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Skin Conditions
your not the only one anyone can have stretch marks even men and you dnt have to be big to have stretch marks either.
i'm size 10/12 i have stretch marks but not the ones that you can feel i only have them on my bum but where i'm dark skin its not noticable i spoke to my bf about them and he says i shouldnt be silly or worry about it. he has them too cuz he got muscles.
i never used to like having sex in the morning or where there was light. cuz of this but now im ova dat my bf never said anything about them until i said it and he finks i'm silly
but he makes me feel so good about myself that i can walk around the house with jus knickers on
i've learned to live with them wot i'm really worried about is when i have kids i see alot a women who have kids with really bad stretch mark tummys boi im geting laser treatment for that **** ( jus jokin) hope i made you smile
and dnt worry about it if he loves you for you then his the one.
be happy with yourself first.
take care and keep smiling.
2007-09-19 04:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by worried 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I call my stretch marks my "Congressional Medals of Womanhood". Then I think about more important things.
As a nurse and massage therapist, trust me honey, everyone has stretch marks. Even guys. Anyone that allows straie (the medical term for stretch marks) to in any way change their opinion of someone is just plain old dumb.
Move on.
2007-09-19 04:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Val J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they are new to you. My pregnancy stretch marks looked like a map of the world. they will fade with time. You cannot feel them, although you think you can. Your BF will not notice them as much as you think he does. Get him to concentrate on other things.... You don't need to wear short skirts etc anyway. More is less as they say.
2007-09-19 07:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by hauntedhouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that problem too. The annoying thing is i've never been pregnant and I started getting them since I was about 14. I still haven't found anything to get rid of them but I hate them so much, hubby isn't too worried tho.
2007-09-19 04:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by LoveBeingAMum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a dude, I will give you this bit of advice. I never gave two craps about my GFs stretch marks. Ive felt em and seen em and it didnt make any differance to me.
2007-09-19 04:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
HI I HAVE STRETCH MARKS UNDER MY ARM ON MY ARMPITS, BREAST, TUMMY AND LOWER BACK, THIGHTS, LEGS AND BACK OF MY KNEES.
I GOT THESE DUE TO BEING PREGNACT WITH MY SON AND DRANK LOTS OF MILK( WHICH I FOUND OUT AFTER HIS BIRTH I HAD INTORLANCE) SO I WENT FOR SIZE 8 TO 20 IN 8 MONTHS.
MY WEIGHT HAS NEARLY COME OFF AND IM NOW A SIZE 10 BUT THE STRETCH MARKS ON MY TUMMY ROSE HIGHER SO I GOT BI-OIL AND THEY ARE FADDING.
MY HUBBY SAW THE FIRST ONE AND HE DIDNT MIND THEN WHEN MY BELLY GOT BIGGER AND BIGGER MORE CAME. I FELT REALLY UGLY BUT HE JUST TOLD ME ITS THE WAY YOU ARE. SO IT DOESNT MATTER AT ALL.
TRUST ME IF THEY DONT LIKE YOUR STRETCH MARKS THEN I THINK YOU NEED TO THINK WERE YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOING BECAUSE THEY ARE PART OF YOU AND YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY WAY!!!
2007-09-19 06:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by smartie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean, but seriously, EVERYBODY has them! Skinny, Fat, Baby, No baby, Male, or Female.....I don't like to flaunt them by any means, but I try not to let it bother me. My mom taught me a great lesson about men: if they think you're beautiful, they think you're beautiful. Don't point out areas that make you feel uncomfortable and it will probably never be noticed, or at least not even be an issue! Listen to the guy on here....it's not a biggie! :) GO NAKED! *lol*
2007-09-19 04:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Aus J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The chances are that your blokey hasnt even really noticed them. But if he's that concerned he's being stupid. Try some Bio Oil, this helps to fade them. Good luck, and dont worry!
2007-09-19 04:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by X.Emily.X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to lessen the effects of strech marks rub the area with VITAMIN E oil (highest you want to pay for); Aloe Vera Gel,
Take internally Silicia Gel. (tabs or liquid).
2007-09-19 04:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i keep mine under wraps and yes my husband has seen them but i detest them so he doesn't get to see them much.
2007-09-19 04:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by Dooby 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋