Based on the headline above..eerr well..my friend,Cher...she got a problem bout her family.She often tell me her problems bout her family but unfortunately,all I can say is"patient,Cher"I feel bad because I cant help her.She got a very hot tempered father and Cher is a sensitive girl..ofcourse she upset and disappointed when her father said one day to her"Its better if I dont have any children..I have but the useless one!"Wasnt it terrible because Cher is very bright student at school.Her father always like to release his stress at Cher and her mother with angry at them and treat them as a parasite at their own house.Cher's father is a straight man and like to do thing based on his own way..like selfish and arrogant.Cher even afraid to talk with her father..you know..father and daughter conversation..But Cher life is not that bad...his father still doing his responsibility to them but I know Cher suffer inside.What type of father is that?Give me your thought or suggestion..thanks guys!
2007-09-19 02:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by My name is Wish 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Cher obviously has a strict, stern father who does not find it easy to show his affection and love for his daughter.
Unfortunately, she will suffer in the future as she will tend to be attracted to men just like him.
Perhaps she should write her father a loving and kind letter telling him how she feels, using a lot of "I" words.
It may just show him the bad effect he is having on Cher and make him more compassionate when he deals with her.
2007-09-25 05:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend to her. That's what she needs right now. There is nothing you can do to change her father, but there is always something you can do to Cher. Uplift her so she doesn't give up, or feel too bad about her situation.
2007-09-26 04:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by nostradamus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... how old is she? To be honest, in January(actually new years eve) me and my dad had it out because sometimes he would get that way, and basiclly the night of this huge fight I packed some stuff and moved out. Stayed with a friend for awhile and then got my own apartment. I didnt talk to my father for about 6 months. He still gets that way sometimes but not nearly as severe as he was before. I guess he is scared of losing me now. But take whatever you can from my story. Maybe it will help.
2007-09-27 00:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being there for your friend. It is hard dealing with a father that has no thought about what he says and how it effects his children/ I am not sure how old your friend is but, someday she will be able to move out and move on. Hopefully she doesn't pick a man like her father to fall in love with. Let her know she is not alone there are other children out there dealing with the same thing and they made it.....
2007-09-19 09:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is that you are only hearing one side of the problem. It is entirely possible that Cher's Father is a busy Dad with no thought that he has to treat her with kid gloves.
2007-09-26 10:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand when kids are good the parents are bad, It looks that your friend needs to talk to them about this situation, she needs to let them know that she is doing good at school because of them, but she needs their support in life, love is a necesary ingredient in life, communication they need to talk, if she can't talk to them she will need to find a way to let them see what s going on, she needs to talk to someone at school and ask for help, maybe their parents have money problems and they stress out right now, but she needs to ask them what is going on? if they don't know this is affecting her life they wont stop....
2007-09-26 06:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by MARY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems like a father with anger issues, or low self-esteem.
he probably does not value himself, so he has to take it out on his daughter... this happens a lot.
i hope Cher is ok.
2007-09-19 09:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been though something like that but with my mom. Iknow how she feels. I'd cry it out and it made me feel better. it's kind of like crying the hurt away. but i think it's great that you are there to be there for her. a shoulder to cry on. good job.
2007-09-26 20:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Merry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lowlife! tell your friend to get counseling - NOW! She is going to have problems throughout the rest of her life so she better have someone on her side that can help her deal with all this!
2007-09-26 18:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kelli A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋