because i bring up the same things..that happen in the past...he cheated an i really never got over it.....anyway..yesterday when i saw him with this girl that works in our building i got pissed of...and i did not know what to think....so i phoned him like 60 times and left him text messages...well he told me that he doesnt want to be with me any more ...because i dont trust him and all the things i said about him in the text .......i do want to be with him......but i may have lost him....if he cared he would have just reassure me that we are fine and i have nothing to worry about...i know that i do bring up the past..and thats because i dont trust him
2007-09-19 02:32:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 years he is willing to throw away....and i have put up with so much from him...i have NEVER disrespected him made him feel like less of a man for living with this momma at 31
2007-09-19 02:44:04 · update #1
your obsessing
it is nice to have outside assurance but look inward for true comfort
the reason you have not got over it is because you have not forgiven yourself and him do that then move on
2007-09-19 02:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you. You may be able to trust him again, you may not. But it sounds like you can't. You always have that doubt in the back of your head. I'd just let him go and maybe the next guy will never cheat on you or make you have these doubts. You will get over him, he's just another boy.
2007-09-19 09:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by siva703 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser, so you should just let him go. I'm sorry this happened to you, I'm sure you'll find a good man who will treat you with the love and respect you so surely deserve. Good Luck.
2007-09-19 09:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
60 phone calls? He doesn't want to be with you because you're a psycho.
2007-09-19 09:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋