Many times I have seen my brother/father pinch/shift/adjust their privates in public - sometimes right in front of me! Why do they do this?
Why am I expected to look away (mom tells me to)? - Why cant i stare just like men do?
What do they adjust? The 'balls' or the 'rod'?
Is this a comfort issue or something sexual/manly to do?
Do they do it because they have a erection or even limp ones need to be moved?
Also do all men have a 'erect*ion' when they wake up in the morning - I have seen a few obscene 'tents' made by my brother in the morning... Hee Hee!!!
I dont see any of us adjusting our breasts/panty like that LOL..! And i am sure men will not look away if we do!!!!!
2007-09-19 02:31:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dont stare at my brother's thing. Wierdos!!!
But if it is standing up like a pyramid - I cant avoid seeing it, can i?
2007-09-19 02:45:56 · update #1
This happenes.. But generally mens do it privately... But the problem is not with Rod only.. I have seen many girls trying to adjust their bra privately.. The moral of the story is "one that protudes,needs adjustments" because girls are not seen adjusting their panties.. As far as the activity of adjustment is concerned I can tell it for men, The aim is to achieve the best relative position of undergarment & rod/Flag which gives comfort , also it does not protude out/Visible....Hope I have cleared ur doubts
2007-09-19 23:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by abhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's first of all admit that we have different standards for males & females, especially in India. So, males are allowed to do certain things in public view. You might have seen many of them urinating in public places! Did you ever see any female doing so?
Yes, most of them (males) would have either itching or even uncomfortable feelings forcing them to adjust what you call 'privates'. It is better if they do it in a decent manner! But in your case, they probably do it innocently presuming that youare just the same innocent little girl of the 'family'! IGNORE...
Well, all the menfolks have 'morning erections' and the fact remains that they should be a little awre of this and they should avoid 'public appearaces' with that!
It seems that you are paying the matter more attention than it actually deserves. There is a lot that exists and we do not like or approve. We have to ignore that. Or is it that you enjoy looking at it!
Take Care...
2007-09-20 01:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U see men wear garments which are not sufficient loose.Their undies are also tight, u see men have heavy pennis and set of testacles having weight and in days of humid,itching occurs and men are forced to adjust these from the wetness of respiration.Further ur querry that girls do not adjust their bras,this is correct, but when it is not quite fit to suit the size of boobs, it is seen that women adjust.Similar is the position of panties. Next every man when wake up from sleep their pennis are erected till they urinate.Similarly girls during sleep keep their one hand on their ***** as I have seen my sister doing so. Am I correct.
2007-09-19 10:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by desigob_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your dad,I think its better to look away,but theres nothing to be ashamed of if you do take a peek when a buff guy does it!!!
Its for comfort and yes, even limp ones get shifted.Most young guys have a "tent" when they wake up,but as soon as they urinate it is over.
I sometimes pull a wedgie out of my but when I think no-one is looking and I'll adjust my bra infront of my brother.
2007-09-19 09:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by jancoetzee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
b.s., i see girls adjusting their bras and boobs all the friggin time.
What we do is out of comfort, it gets pretty packed down there, especially if a girl walks by we like, and well, things need adjusting. Could be any of the tackle too, not just one or the other.
We gotta do what we gotta do. If you wanna look, then look. Hey, we check you girls out all the time, even when you think we arent
2007-09-19 09:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nooka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot going on down there...some times you just got to mix it up. And women make adjustments too. We just don't see it because they are taught to be ashamed of their bodies more than men are.
Personally, I think we should just do away with shame altogether and go clothing optional.
2007-09-19 09:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Comfy! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's comfort for most men.
Remember there is a seam in the pants
right where his privates are. It could be a
little uncomfortable at times and need a little adjusting.
I just wouldn't pay much attention to it.
2007-09-19 10:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi...rani ...with the help of your mum you should put forward this to your father and brothers attention....but with care and should be friendly as if you are joking,.. at the same time they should get the point....of what you are trying to correct their behaviour.., say like....' tell them...".that....see I am your daughter / sister so I wont take it bad......you may do the same in front of others....especially if it would be a female then she would think bad about you....so please try to change.
Hope these lines are ok to satisfie your question.
2007-09-20 05:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by 2bros 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you get 'bunched up' and need to fix things - they should be more discrete about it.
No, not every morning is morning wood. Erections in the morning are caused by REM sleep - yup, the full bladder is just a myth. BTW - You are 19, why are you sharing a room with your brother and looking at his crotch.
2007-09-19 09:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
U r right Baby.Keep yourself away from the man's when they r alone in spite of relation u have. They may break anytime & u be in trouble.Rest u described is all correct.They adjust both.What is with u to adjust. No erection no adjustment needed.
2007-09-19 09:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋